Friday, August 20, 2010

The Parting by Michael Drayton?

I understand that it's about a breakup, but could someone kind of, put what he's saying into how we would say it now for a better understanding of it?








Since there's not help, come let us kiss and part;


Nay, I am done, you get no more of me;


And I am glad, yea, glad with all my heart,


That thus so cleanly I myself can free;


Shake hands for ever, cancel all our vows,


And when we meet at any time again,


Be it not seen in either of our brows


That we, one jot of former love retain.


Now, at the last gasp of love's latest breath,


When his pulse failing, passion speechless lies,


When faith is kneeling by his bed of death,


And innocence is closing up his eyes,


Now, if thou woulds't, when all have given him over,


From death to life Thou might'st him yet recover.The Parting by Michael Drayton?
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  • Just found out my ex has a new girlfriend?

    and i feel really weird.it has been off now for almost 9 months and even though i have seen him with other girls ages ago this has been the first time i have heard it and knew he has moved on.So have i but i still get this feeling at the bottom of my stomach,its not jealousy but its just odd to know that the man i once loved is now gone for real.we dont talk anymore and we had a messy breakup,but can someone offer advice on how to deal with this??i dont feel like crying but i want to know how to get rid of this feeling i have since i found out.Just found out my ex has a new girlfriend?
    it sucks to realize that you've officially been replaces. i've been there. about 6 months after i broke up with my ex, i heard that he was seeing a girl we both knew actually, and i felt the same way. i couldn't put my finger on why it bothered me because i didn't really want him - but then i realized it just hurts to be replaced, especially the first time it happens (although it never really gets ';easy'; to deal with). just take some deep breaths whenever the thought of it upsets you, and remind yourself of why you aren't with him and how sweet it will be when you find your new guy. chances are, it will make him feel kind of shitty to hear he's been replaced even if he has a new girl. when my ex heard i was dating some new (after he'd been with the new girl for about 6 months) i heard he asked tons of questions - not that any of my friends answered. (i love them!) hope this helps a little =)Just found out my ex has a new girlfriend?
    just think that he had someone else now, and that you have to moved on, and let those feeling go, and find you someone else also.
    Don't sweat it. Go out there and meet other guys, chill out with your friends, and live life:)
    I am not sure I understand your feelings. You aren't being fair at all. You say you have moved on............if you have moved on, why shouldn't he? And if you are broke up he should be looking for others. It sounds to me like you are too young to handle the emotional upset that a relationship brings. This is why young people should wait.

    First break up.. help !?

    okay so i dont know if i have a weird breakup or if someone has had something like this before..


    so first of all we broke up 2 nights ago


    k so it was a mutual break-up because we fought over every little thing possible most of the time and we were so easily angry with eachother, and lately it seemed like i wasn't his priority like i used to be and he even knew he was treating me differently.





    so as it goes 2 nights ago i said ';we have to break up i cant go through this for too much longer'; and he said ';as much as i dont want too, youre right';


    so we broke up but then continued to text the next morning saying it's weird how were broken up and stuff


    then we didnt talk all at school but i get home and he texts me saying how was my day? and all that


    we know we cant get back together cus it'll just be the same..





    but has anyone still talked to their ex right after they broke up ? and what happened? did that make it harder for you to be friends, or better?First break up.. help !?
    its bad to txt after a break up, cuz it makes it harder to move on

    Why am I so angry with my Ex if I left?

    ok so after 3+ years I decided to leave my Ex, after multiple lies and fights and unsettled arguments I decided it was no longer a healthy relationship. She did not support my goals nor did she have any of her own. My Question is, now its been about 3 weeks, she has contacted me a few times telling me she misses me and would rather fight and stay together than be alone(which i perceived as a pretty selfish statement because she was only concerned about how she was feeling) but anyways she went on to tell me how she cant picture her life without me and how she misses me. Yet to her friends and in her myspace(which i should have never looked at) She claims to love the single life and living alone and just projects this complete opposite person that i have no clue about, its like a totally different person I never knew. She totally contradicts everything she said to me. now I know I do not want to be back with her, But why do I find myself angry at the fact that she is portraying herself just the opposite of what she tells me. Ive ignored her and never responded. But is being angry about this a normal phase in the breakup? why would someone do that? Why does it bother me? I don't know maybe someone else has some insight or has experienced this themselves. Any help is appreciated.Why am I so angry with my Ex if I left?
    Remember - it is better to have loved and lost than to end up married to the b*tch.Why am I so angry with my Ex if I left?
    Your angry because of the person she is. You could have had a successful marriage if she had a better character but she doesn't so you have every right to be angry. You were once a vital part of this persons life and she has betrayed you by lying. I'd be angry too it doesn't mean you want to be with her.
    she sounds devasted and lost. if she didnt even have any goals of her own im guessing you summed up most of her life. nobody wants to be the one left behind. she's pretending to be happy to save face, she got burned. look at her with some empathy, it should ease some of your anger. she's the one who got told - ';i dont want you anymore';
    Piggy...haha





    Yes its normal. Its like any trauma. you go through stages. anger, acceptance, sadness, forgiveness.





    My motto always has been to tell people around me i dont want to hear about it. i dont want to see the person. let me heal. Thats the best way to get through it the quickest.
    Your angry because she forced you to make a decision you didn't want to ever have to make. Don't believe anything you see or read on myspace. That was designed for liars and teenyboppers
    She probably wants people to think shes happy. Maybe she's embarrassed that she misses you. Dont automatically think shes just lying to you
    She was a disappointment to you, that's why your so mad. Get over it and move on.
    you lost me at 'myspace'.





    sorry.
    People are selfish, especially immature people. Its obvious that she has a LOT of growing up left to do, and is afraid to face the fact that she dose. Its ok to be angry, to be hurt and frustrated by what she did. There isn't much closer to what happened, from what you said, and maintaining a open line of communication can make things harder (from my experience) but there is nothing wrong with that. Its very honorable of you to talk to her. I'd say to just give you some time, its only been three weeks and it sounds like you gave up a lot of yourself into the relationship, you are going to be angry and hurt it will take time to heal. How much time? Who knows. Maybe tell her you need time for yourself, and that she shouldn't call you for awhile. Then just concentrate on you, and your life. Enjoy the small things, take a walk outside, and heal. Its the best medication.
    You may still care, to a certain extent.......OR you're angry with yourself for allowing her to push your buttons. I would be inclined to believe the latter. Ego wounds are as fatal as bodily woulds. She's basically lying, since she's portraying two complete opposite outlooks. You've made the absolute best decision by leaving her in the past with no continued contact. FORTUNATELY, there's no child to keep you ';attached'; to her. Best Wishes......
    My ex was the same, telling me they loved me and wanted me back yet saying all these horrible things about me to their friends and that they were glad to be shot of me blah blah blah. I did get angry but then I realised they had to lie to try and validate themselves, they were either lying to me by saying loved me etc because if I came back it would validate them or they were lying to their friends saying horrible things to make their friends back them up and validate them.





    Either way don't be mad just see your ex for the pathetic individual that she is.
    Okay so I think you maybe feeling angry with her because you spend three years of your life with her, and you wouldn't expect someone like that to lie to you like this. I think it maybe a bit normal but at the same time it also maybe best that you forget about her, and let her play this double roll. Because if she is willing to take the time to tell you all this crap, and then go behind your back, and tell her friend all the other crap, I honestly don't think anyone who does this is worth anyone's time.


    Hope this helps, good luck.

    10pts for a good answer, ex questions..?

    she dumped me over text, said she met someone...... i ask to talk ,she says na im ok thanks....this was 5 weeks ago, and i havent tried to contact her and she hasnt either...





    we had JUST got back together, and she was saying how we are meant to be, and that she is so incredibly happy and how she wants to make love to me and be with me, how she cant wait to come home and stay with me, (she is in cali, im in ohio) she is coming home beginning of march





    so i tell her ill fly out to see her, and stay with her, drive back with her ( i have a month off, so i am able to do this) the day after we get back together, i buy a ticket to fly out... but then find out there is an issue with my tax refund, so i tell her i cant come, even tho i already told her id be there that night....





    she doesnt act mad, but attitude kind of changes, like she closes up ....then the text breakup about meeting someone....





    she was so prepared to be with me, cause had i came out, we were going to stay together for the rest of the time in cali, and then come back to ohio and stay together....





    why did she do this? anger? disappointment? cold feet?





    we were together for over a year, long distance for 8 months.. and it was finally ending...another note... she seems to have been developing deep self esteem issues, that may be manifesting itself as an eating disorder, if that helps at all10pts for a good answer, ex questions..?
    I agree with Tila. Long distance relationships tend not to work, especially if you're continuing a relationship that wasn't long distance in the first place. It takes a lot of dedication, and more often than not, only one of the people has it. This happens. It seems like she was already with someone new and she was going to tell you when you came out. But she just went on and told you because you weren't coming.10pts for a good answer, ex questions..?
    I think that she may be having a hard time with the long distanc relationship. IF she does really love you, maybe you not being able to fly over that night disappointed her maybe she is a litle upset about it.





    IF she feels less connected to you and did meet someone else, maybe the long distance thing isn't working.





    Ask her if you two can talk about this as adults.
    she probably did find someone else...probably didn't work out and now she's back. Dont fall for it.

    Confused and hurt regarding my ex Girlfriend... Help?

    ok its a long story but here it goes.





    My ex and i dated for about 6 months. Things were going really strong up until about a week before our breakup. She said the spark between us was no longer there and she dumped me in early november. We agreed to be friends. About a week after our breakup i met someone else. a long time friend of mine started flirting and hitting on me. Well my ex got to like that and told me she still liked me and that she was jealous. Well my feelings basically poured out of my mouth. I still liked her and after telling her how i felt she thought it was sweet but she said she wanted to wait. So we did She began talking to me and flirting a lot after this Then she started flirting around with this other guy which hurt me a lot. so i went off on a date with a new girl (by this time the old new girl is out of the picture with her own bf, still good friends with me though) and it didnt go great so i thought nothing of it and moved on past that. Well along comes my ex again and she wanted to hang out. She liked the new guy she was talking but things didnt go so well and they never got together. So now shes back talking to me and saying how much she likes me. I eagerly say that i liked her back and then as soon as i said that she stopped the flirting. Then after a month or so she suddenly came back outta knowhere flirting with me again. I told her she was worth more than anything to me. She said awww thanks babe but she also said she wasnt ready for relationship right now. So about four days later she starts flirtin it up with another new guy. I really felt like she was leading me on that entire time and never wanted me back but at other times i think it was real because her friends said she talked about me a lot at times. Idk wat to think, wat to do,, or what to feel. I love this girl and shes the only person i really want in my life right now and i havent gone a day without thinking about her since the day we met. It hurts so much to see her flirting with other guys but i want her to be happy. We still talk to eachother as friends but i wanna be so muuch more. i want things back to the way they were.





    advice please?Confused and hurt regarding my ex Girlfriend... Help?
    You don't have much to lose by telling her that she is hurting you. I would tell her how you really feel about the whole situation, and see what she says. If she wants you back..for real, then take her back. But if she still says that she is not ready for a relationship, then I think you need to try to cut ties with her. She is causing you too much pain, and it is not good. You need a girl in your life that will make you happy all of the time. I really hope things work out for you. God Bless :)Confused and hurt regarding my ex Girlfriend... Help?
    i had this exact same problem. bad news is, it took me almost a year to figure out he was leading me on. good news, when i did finally figure it out, i had the upper hand, %26amp; he COULDN'T stand it. but for me, it felt SO good lol because finally HE knew what it felt like to be treated like that.





    %26amp; you're exactly right, she's just leading you on. but it's up to YOU to realize that you deserve better, that you don't need to put up with that anymore. yeah, trying to move on IS going to hurt - it's been almost six months since i realized i deserved better %26amp; decided to move on %26amp; it STILL hurts me to this day. BUT, i STILL have that upper hand, he STILL can't stand it, %26amp; it STILL feels so good LOL.





    %26amp; wonce you realized you deserve better %26amp; you make the effort to move on, something better WILL come - it did for me :)





    hope i helped! :)

    I am heartbroken?

    I am so heartbroken. I went out with a guy I met on Craig's List for a year. I fell totally in love with him. He acted totally in love with me too, but said he didn't love me at all. We had so much fun together, and every minute seemed perfect to me. I guess not to him. We finally broke up, in this awful, ugly, breakup. How does someone stay with you for a year, and not have feelings for you, yet act like they totally do?





    Now, he is advertising in all the nearby cities for someone on craig's list. Our final breakup was two weeks ago. He even advertised in my town, asking for a relationship, exactly like ours.





    The last round we had, I wrote him, told him I really missed him. He wrote back, and said he sat in our favorite resturant waiting for me to show up. He came over, and spent 24 blissful hours with me. Then he said he had no intention of being in a relationship with me.





    The crazy thing is that we are both 55. Not exactly babies.





    I can't stop thinking about him.I am heartbroken?
    I'm sorry but I think he's not worth it. Just the fact that he's tricking you into thinking that he likes you and then throwing it out the door is proof enough. Besides, guys are sooo confusing and have the disgusting habit of playing with girls' emotions and twisting their minds, when they don't even know it cause they can be soo stuuuupidd. I know you can't stop thinking about him, but please try. You'll drive yourself crazy. BUT if he comes back to you seeming pretty sincere about you and wanting to be together, don't believe him. Everytime you think of him pinch yourself and start doing something to distract you. That's what I do if it happened to me. Stay strong.I am heartbroken?
    He is a playah.
    You don't need a man to fulfill your life. You can be alone without being lonely. I understand heartbreak, but if he was married for 22 years and never felt love, it's likely that he has mental issues that you aren't going to be able to fix.





    Get some hobbies, some good friends. Volunteer somewhere. When I get older I plan to use my free time volunteering at an animal shelter, making a difference.





    Just stay away from him, or you'll be setting yourself up for another heartbreak.





    Good luck.
    Wow, I dont even know what to say i feel so bad for you! The guy sounds like a sociopath who is only capable of loving himself and is indifferent to everyone else. My dad is the same way. I know you didnt ask for advice but I would say to get over this weirdo ASAP and move on, and learn how to be happy with yourself again.
    It sounds like you just want to be in a relationship for the fear of being alone. I know that must be hard for you but you need to get your confidence back. You shouldn't give and give and give because men you attact that way are men who are not good people. They are the men that just use woman to get a roof over their head or free goodies. You should sign up for match.com or eharmony.com so you can get your likely matches. craiglist.org is more like booty call things. On those other dating websites you meet people that have the same interests as you and you might meet more people that way. It sucks to get your heart broken. I am sorry for that but please just get some confidence and don't settle for 2nd best. You deserve better and someone to love you. Being alone is a scary thing to do, but sometimes it is better than being unhappy or getting used.

    Breakups Sux!! Big Time!!* SomeONe Help Me!!?

    Hey!*


    i was dating this guy, that i really liked! Lets Call Him [[tater]]* [[codename]] Then this other guy asked me out, Lets call him [[Tot]]*[[codename]] and i broke up with [Tater] to go out with [Tot] Because I thought i liked [Tot] better. but it turns out i dont! so i broke up with [Tot] and now i dont have either!! But [Tater], didnt know i went out with [Tot]* I really want [Tater] back* what should i do?? How do i tell him?? Please help*Breakups Sux!! Big Time!!* SomeONe Help Me!!?
    dear god thats cofusing just tell him what happoned and apologize........Breakups Sux!! Big Time!!* SomeONe Help Me!!?
    Set the oven to 350 degrees, cook for 10-14 minutes, and hook up with [[ketchup]]! :)
    Welcome to dumpsville, population YOU!
    Learn that lesson quick and keep it in mind the next time you're dating [ham] and [burger] winks atcha. ;)


    Love is love and sex is sex-- they're never one in the same.
    maybe you should take some time to grow up. playing games is the worst thing to do when you really care about someone. it seems like the only reason you want ';tater'; back is because now you're alone. learn to deal with being alone so you dont become overly co-dependent.

    Could it really be Nine months?

    Details: No big breakup, just liked someone alittle too much who didn't feel the same about me and went through something else but... I'm ready now...I think. When in the past I've been out on a date...I think I drive the man a little crazy. I dont mean too, honest. sex is something really sacred to me and yes I have had one yes only one one night stand. I think sex is so special that it shouldn't just be given to anyone. I feel guilty for giving it to someone I didn't know and to this day I don't understand why it happened or why i allowed it to happen. This might sound crazy but I have never understood how people can just F*** each other without anything special being there. I haven't had alot of partners in my life but Im so okay with that because I have morals and I can wake up in the morning and know Im a good person. And yes I dont think of you as a good person that goes around and just f**** every skirt u can get ur hands on. BTW I could get laid everynite I choose NOT TO!!!!!!!Could it really be Nine months?
    I agree with you...Could it really be Nine months?
    ...good...be proud your a good person and leave the poor sluts alone. Although I agree with you I don't see the point of posting here, you're not going to change anyones opinion, just wasting peoples time by writing this.
    Thats because your a true and honest girl. Leave the F...iig to those others .I would rather go with a girl nine months and get nothing than to have one night stands .(Mick)
    and your point is?

    It's me again and i need more help?

    first thing is to say thank you to all of you that reply to my post,


    but i saw that most of you said that i have very lowself esteem and i need to get help for this.


    how can i get a self help on this and how do i get others to help me to for free.i am a low income and cann't afford to pay someone to help me with this,is there anyone that can help me get through this some how.


    i thank you all again over and over and hope to get the right help soon.i don't like feeling this way,i feel i need him to make it and i should know better then that but then you don't have it to live and thats all you have,i'm getting deeper in that low spot,can someone please help me.


    i'm 45 and need to be lifted up and find some kind of good in my self and hope for me.


    i'm afraied of being alone and don't know if i can do it,if we breakup for good.


    someone talk to me.It's me again and i need more help?
    I have what I call a pity-party. I only allow myself a certain amount of time, and then I make myself get up and do something.. Dry those tears, and go to the local library, there is lots of good books dealing with low self esteem. Check you out a couple of them. You can live without this man, I am not going to tell you it will be easy, but you can....so, what if you are 45. I am 44, and fixing to be single again, and I know how hard it is. I also know how scared you are. I have been with this man for 27 years, I thought I couldn't breath without him, but you know what I can-and I will. Just like you are! You sound like a wonderful caring person, and I wished you lived near by, and I would kick you in the butt, because that is what my friend did to me. Yes, I gave up, thought of suicide the works, and you know what-no man is worth it....I decided I would be better alone, then sit there and let him rip my heart anymore. I have some good friends and I hope one day I can find a man who will make me forget and love me like I will him. We all deserve that-and that includes you!


    So, call a friend, get dressed up and go have a coke or coffee with them. Check into going back to school, you can get grants, and it wouldn't cost you a dime. Join a club. I started taking dance lessons at a local bar, and I am enjoying it. It's free, and I have met some very nice people. It's so scarey till I was shaking, but I am doing it. I have bad days, but I can quarntee you it gets better. I hope he will help you, but if he doesn't want to work at the relationship-then tell him to take a walk. I wish you well, and I will be praying that you find the strength and the courage that you need...still wished you lived next door, because honey I definitely would give you a ear full.....God bless...It's me again and i need more help?
    Honey, my pleasure, hope things are looking good now!

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    You are contemplating on having cosmetic surgery and paying thousands of dollars for a doctor, but can't afford a shrink? You must be kidding me!?





    Your insurance should cover any therapist/psychologist visits. Call your insurance and ask them what's covered and how much the copayment is.
    Alone??? With so many millions of people on this planet, ALONE is a matter of perception, a false one at that. Honey, listen! You do NOT need him AND you CAN survive without him. How can you get help? Start by helping yourself. No money required! find a good church, join a good support group, start one for that matter. I said this to someone earlier and I will now say it to you. How people feel about themselves and how others feel about them is all opinion. Where there is one person who thinks of you and treats you one way, there are thousands of untold others who will treat you better. If one person thinks another is better than you, a hundred others will think YOU are the diamond in the rough. You do NOT need this person! NOT when there are so many others out there that will be a thousand times better for you than that! The point is that ONE person does NOT make you who and what you are! YOU DO!!!!! To hades with him! Get out and start over. YOU CAN DO THAT! Yo have options. talk to a clergyman and call around to see what kind of housing options you have. Income based would work until you are on your OWN feet. Start with one thing at a time. YOU CAN do this without him. Surround yourself in friends and a good socail network, like church friends. Change your thinking. YOU have this situation, the SITUATION DOES NOT have YOU! If I can help, I will! If you need a positive friend, you found one! Feel free to e-mail me anytime. s_ransom_2006@yahoo.com! I'm willing to talk and listen and help if I can! God bless and best wishes! good luck!
    sometimes it hurts before it feels better, It is going to hurt no matter what. God will never give you more than you can handle. Hold your head up and own the world.. You can make it without someone by your side 24/7. It is called being dependent on yourself. Learn to love yourself, make a list of good things about yourself and go from there. Again, get in touch with you and who you are, If you feel that you can not live without this person, what are you saying about yourself? That you are worthless, that no one will care?? Seriously, no man is worth that, Nobody is worth that, I have been in some pretty low places myself, You DO have the inner strength to pull out of this it will take some time and some SERIOUS PATIENCE with yourself. You will be okay... Everything you do from now on just do it for you... Be selfish for once... Pamper yourself... Look forward to the future not yesterday it is gone and there is nothing you can do to get it back...
    Dr. Laura is awesome... you can listen to her on the radio.





    However, I personally believe that anything YOU want, you can achieve. Don't rely on others to fulfill your goals and ambitions.





    What is your ideal of a confident, secure person with high self-esteem? Do they walk with their heads up, look others in the eyes, smile big when they meet others, shake hands, say what is on their mind, ask for the things they want?


    You are no different then the people that act in this manner. Just go out %26amp; do these things. When you are at the grocery store, talk to people... look them in the eye. The more you do these things, the more comfortable you will become, and these actions will become second nature to you.





    KNOW WHAT YOU WANT. Don't settle for less. This works in everything from ordering at McDonald's to looking for Mr. Right.





    Good luck %26amp; God bless!
    Call Dr. Laura or she has tons of good books out
    I don't know what your situation is. I feel for you just reading what I did. There are alot of state places that will help you but and this is my opinion there are alot of sites on the web that you can talk to people who are going through what you are. YOU DO NOT NEED ANYONE TO MAKE YOU WHO YOU ARE YOU ARE OKAY .Please believe that
    Go on a dating site a bar and find a guy dont be with someone elses you know how that would make you feel if your man was cheating dont do it and love will find you. Trust me
    You need to go to church, pray ,and fast and assk the lord to guide your steps. remember the footsteps when only one set of footprints were in the sand ? The lord was carrying you and he will again if you put all your faith in him. do not worry about what is or is not beacuse he will not leave yu alone, even when you feel like you are. All you need is faith the size of amustard seed. I can tell yu from experience. The only man you need is GOD Trust and believe. If you have insurance call and ask them for participating counselors and make an app. all you should have to pay is the co-pay for a specialist. that is what i am doing myself right now.Or if you belong to a church make an appointment to see the pastor and talk with him as well.





    sweetie you need to stay in prayer and ask for guidance. he will never lead you astray. Then again I am always an e-mail away. try all three.





    Good Luck Nad God bless





    Charise
    That's hard. i've been married for three years and I just now came to the conclusion that if he left I 'd be okay. Well atleast I think so. IM me at marieandlucaspape and tell me more about your situation.
    Hi denise,





    my cousin paid 3900 dollars in all--for her tummy tuck.it included her 18 day stay also in a deluxe room.





    sorry for the delayed reply---you had sent me a mail about this





    best wishes
    you are a troubled young ladie for sure.I'am 68 and have been around a lot.I really think you need to talk to your doctor or pastor.If you are depressed, they can and will help.you have my E-mail address if you need to talk to a Friend I will be here for you.


    I'm not a dirty old man I could be your Friend.Jerry
    i tried to help u out but u dient listen to me
    I have really low self esteem too. Exercise (and a new outfit every now and then) really helps!! Exercise every single day! If you have really low self esteem and don't want people watching you exercising then go hiking ! People can't even see you and you will look great in no time!!! Please follow this advise!!! Hiking will make you into a new woman! Also, do you like to take pictures? Bring the camera along to capture all the beautiful things you see! A soon as you start having more self esteem you husband will really enjoy it!


    ilovedragonflies6@yahoo.com
    You can IM me if you want





    Warning: I may not tell you want you want to hear.
    damn .. my butt hurts answerin so much (that's where ma brain is)
    There are many books and tapes you can borrow for free at your local library to help build your self esteem.That's all you really need and some time to get over him.Everything will work out if you think positive.Try it- It works.Good Luck!
    huh my head hurts
    Do you have a friend you can talk to? have you tried to look up community services for your state or city? Not-for-profit social service for depression? google those words with you town added maybe that will help. Good Luck ;)
    Being alone is scary if you've never done it before. What do you like to do? Find things that you used to do before you were married and go back to that. When I was alone I kept myself busy. I joined a bowling league, I jogged, I went roller skating, I hung out with my gay friends (didn't want to be hit on by straight men at that time), I read a lot of books including some SELF HELP books to deal with low self esteem, break ups, putting you back together..., I went to the movies, I make blankets, I had monthly dinners for my girlfriends (we men bashed, but it was fun)... You see what I'm getting at? Do the things that you really like to do, that you had stopped doing because he didn't want to or he didn't like it or he wanted you home with him. Obviously, you lost yourself in him. So get you back. You may meet the next one while you are out doing your thing. If you get busy, you won't have time to focus on being alone. And don't leave the lines of communication open with him because it will only confuse you. A therapist told me ';you have to shut the revolving door';.
    There should be no fear in being alone I've been where you are I thought I couldn't breathe without this person no matter how much she walked on me and without her I'd die I did but now I'm reborn. You were not born with this loser you don't have to die with him life is never over because of age. I think in order to gain esteem you have to believe in yourself if you don't he won't it takes courage and heart. we know you have heart you cared to write this just find the courage. I did you can lol 313

    How to get over a longterm relationship breakup?

    Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 6 months and she just ended it today. She said things got boring and that she was sorry and all that crap. And right now im mad more than anything but i know im going to be really down about this in about an hour and i just wanted to know some ways yall cope with a serious breakup.. Please dont answer with Hooking up with someone else, that really doesnt help me.How to get over a longterm relationship breakup?
    Give yourself time and patience. Lots of time and patience.


    Lose some contact with her. It will help you in the long run. Delete her texts and get rid of photos of stuff that you might have. Delete her off your facebook friends list, and delete her number. It's makes it much easier for you.


    Spending time with your friends helps as well. Throw yourself into hobbies and distract yourself with sport and music - improve in those areas.


    Perhaps also talking about the situation to a girl friend or someone? They'll be able to help you out.


    And also believing deep down that you can get over her. Because honestly, although all hope seems lost right now, life will bring you back something even better soon.


    Wishing you well for 2010.How to get over a longterm relationship breakup?
    Yeah, really just let things pass. Your going to feel down sometime but the best ways to help are spend some time with your friends or family. If your artsy draw paint or write, i prefer to play music hen im down or mad. And one important thing most people forget is its ok to cry, it helps mentally at least. Just because your a guy doesnt mean you cant cry.
    Well not necessarily hook up with somebody else, just date somebody else. Or go on vacation with your friends. Vegas anyone?
    just 6 months is not a long term relationship..you should overcome by this situation as soon as possible...try to forget her...just tell your self she wasnt perfect for you or she wasnt of your type...


    there are many girls out there...all the best!!!!
    Get busy, I used to get very physically active, like I was cycling all the time. With an MP3 and some good music, it made my mind think about something else than her.





    Get some new hobbies...
    everyone deals with a breakup there own way dont go get all depressed cause honestly she isnt and theres plenty and I MEAN PLENTY of other people out there!! PICK ONE!!!
    time dear sir.

    How do I make this right? How do I make it go away? If I quit track i lose my friends and my reputation...?

    I was going out with whom I truly thought and yet still think to be the love of my life. I met her on the t%26amp;f and XC team and we were both all-stars. Slowly we became best really close and did everything together. Months later on we were at a 4th of July party and I walked over to her and hooked our arms together and leaned on her under the fireworks. From there on everything was great. We were both always there for each other, so in love. 8 months later though, we were just having a minor issue andstart to drift just a bit. Then out of nowhere when things were getting better again,she confronted me and told me that ';it's just not the same as it used to be';, and gave me the';i just want you to be happy'; deal. But what I don't understand it that she didn't even seem to want to fix things. She just was set on a breakup. That only left me to think ';Why was she so quick to breakup? Eye on someone else perhaps. Now its so painful just to be around her. And i want that memory to be gone.How do I make this right? How do I make it go away? If I quit track i lose my friends and my reputation...?
    its really sad! SORRY TO HEAR THAT BUT IF I WERE YOU I WOULD WAIT ON HER IF YOU LOVED HER THAT MUCH, I have a friend whom is waitinhg for me now 10 years and contunue to waitHow do I make this right? How do I make it go away? If I quit track i lose my friends and my reputation...?
    No truer words were ever said than ';Time heals all wounds.';





    Believe it or not, this will pass and you will have learned something from it.
    I know that this is hard for you but remember that it was an experience and you will have more. Try not to be serious too soon. Take care of yourself.
    ';I just want you to be happy'; is code for a lot of things, it could mean ';I'm just not interested'; or ';Try harder you're losing me'; whatever it is either you fix it or let go.





    If you choose to fix it because she says she wants you to be happy you could always tell her that it's her that makes you happy





    If you choose to let go.... well then you just have to let go, there's nothing more you can do if you're not going to pursue this any further. So try this for letting it go, do a lot to distract you, play sports, watch sports, go out with the guys, do guy stuff, and if you find that you can't seem to stop thinking about her tell her that, maybe she'll realize that you really care.


    You sound like a great guy and I wish you only the best of luck.
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  • How to win back your boyfriend after a breakup even if he is with someone else.?

    My boyfriend met another woman who pushed him into marrying her. He felt that after our last argument and I told him to leave, he thought I did not want him anymore. He is still in love with me and the other woman knows about us. He is not planning to say with her if I will forgive him and take him back. He asked me to give him 6months to get out of it, so we can be together again and make plans for us. I don't know how to do that without feeling can I trust him again. Where do I start so that he knows I am serious. I hope this make sense to you guys.How to win back your boyfriend after a breakup even if he is with someone else.?
    if he's lying to his fiance or whatever she is, how do you know he's not lying to you? hmm, this is a toughie, but he doesn't look like a winner....How to win back your boyfriend after a breakup even if he is with someone else.?
    If he loves you, why does he need 6 months?

    When you call someone after a not-so-clear breakup just to make sure.....?

    I was with someone for a short period of time, we had a nice time and then stopped seeing each other. We spoke on the phone a couple of months afterwards and he wasn't making anything clear! In fact, he kept saying ';eeeeer, hmmmm, you know...yeah'; He's on his mid thirties so I can't think of a reason he'd be so shy or whatever the **** he was. How would you interpret such behavior?When you call someone after a not-so-clear breakup just to make sure.....?
    Mid-life crisis

    Breakup, advice on how to get over someone?

    does anyone have a ny real good advice on how to get over a breakup from experience, not the usual it takes time or spend time with family. I need more than that, thanks :) xBreakup, advice on how to get over someone?
    Hi sweetheart, I strongly recommend this book:


    It's Called A Break-up Because It's Broken'; :http://www.amazon.com/Its-Called-Breakup鈥?/a>





    It is extremely helpful. It is better to read it when you are READY to move on though. Otherwise, visit this forum:


    http://www.enotalone.com/forum/forumdisp鈥?/a>





    If you are truly ready to move on, buy the book. If you can't afford it, I'll quickly outline why it'll help. The book is split into 2 halves; the break-up and the break-over. The break-up half deals with the break-up of the relationship and gives you harsh but honest answers. You have to accept what they tell you because although sometimes ugly, the truth is reality. The 2nd half will make you feel a hell of a lot better. The breakover half deals with you moving on with YOUR life and it is a lot of fun and comforting to read.


    The breakover half advises you to follow 7 rules to help you to recover:


    1) No contact for at least 60 days. This means no facebook stalking, blocking on messenger, no accepting contact from his end etc. NOTHING. Cold turkey. And this in my personal experience is actually the one thing you HAVE to do because it honestly is the only way to save yourself.


    2) Get yourself a ';break up buddy';- someone who is willing to support you and be there for you when you feel low, someone who'll stop you from reaching out to your ex when you feel the urge.


    3) Get rid of his stuff and everything that reminds you of him - the really special things that you'll want to look at in 10 years time; box them and put them in the attic. Don't you dare look at them till you're 100% over the ex. There's no point in torturing oneself. Change your surroundings , rearrange the furniture so it looks different as opposed to ';so empty without him';.


    4)GET MOVING - get active, exercise, do something fun everyday. This point doesn't really need explaining why it'll help


    5) Don't wear your breakup out into the world - play your poker face. Cry in private. Don't leave the house in anything you wouldn't want to run into your ex wearing. They make nice, sexy tracksuits for lazy days.


    6) NO BACKSLIDING ; no going back, no ';one last kiss'; and no ';one last round of breakup sex.'; If you've experienced a relapse you will know exactly why backsliding is a huge mistake. Don't do it. Do not be a dog and settle for scraps,


    7) Learn to put yourself first : when you develop love for yourself, and TRUE love, not just ';meh I'm allright I suppose.'; This is when you find happiness. You don't find it in a lover; you find it in yourself first. Self-love is the cake, a lover is frosting. This is essential. This breakup is not just the breakup of a relationship, it is a chance to become the person you have always wanted to be. Do not waste the opportunity to transform. Think of a beautiful, sexy, sleek, powerful Lhamborgini. This is you. Your ex and the relationship is mud, dust and dirt coating that beautiful car in filth. Let go off the coating of crap that is clouding you, and let yourself shine.Breakup, advice on how to get over someone?
    Walk out of your heartache, knowing that you have done all that you can do, said all that you can say, and given as much as you can give. When you feel that you did your part as best you could, but he or she didn't meet you halfway, then you will not need to torture yourself with ';what-ifs';.


    Remember that your ex may be trying to get over you, as well. Be sensitive to that, and keep your distance. If you've decided to stop seeing one another, do just that: stop.


    Sometimes it helps to listen to music that matches your feelings because you have stored up grief that needs a trigger to help you release it. But beware of wallowing. After a certain point, you're not helping yourself by going through it all again and again with the sad songs. Stephen Sondheim reminds us in his song ';Into the Woods';: ';Into the woods and out of the woods and home before dark!'; You can think of the grieving part of your process as ';the woods';: you may have to ';go there';, but you definitely shouldn't live there.


    Remember those old catch phrases: ';What doesn't kill you makes you stronger';, ';Everything happens for a reason';, ';There are other fish in the sea'; and most of all, ';This too shall pass';. When you go through a breakup or some other emotionally challenging time in your life, you're actually getting closer to finding real happiness because you are getting to know your true inner self. This may or may not include other romantic relationships or an eventual long-term union. Whatever happens is okay, no matter what you choose to do in life.


    As simple as this sounds, be clear to yourself that you are actually breaking up. Too often the thoughts of possibly being back together will creep in, distracting you from the work of healing. Such fantasizing gradually eats at you and destroys your emotional well being. Accept the truth of your situation, and commit to it.


    If your ex has left you for another person then ask yourself: if s/he said s/he wanted you back, would you really want him or her? Would you ever trust him not to break your heart again? Would you be hurt, angry, distrustful when he is 10 minutes late calling you, wondering where she is, who he is with? Though you may believe that the answer to all your prayers would be a reconciliation with your ex, if it did happen, you might find that Mr. Spock from Star Trek was right when he said ';You may find that having is not so pleasing a thing, after all, as wanting. It is not logical, but it is often true.';


    Freedom from fear is what you get when you end a relationship with a cheater. Sometimes the most liberating phase of a post-betrayal breakup is the sudden realization that you are no longer sitting at home waiting for a phone call, spending the evening obsessively searching for evidence of an affair, or just imagining what might be going on behind your back - you're done with all that! The one deserving person you need to take care of now is yourself, and it is so much easier to relax and just love yourself when you're not in constant fear. Count this as a gigantic blessing!


    Keep your dignity. Many times, it's our own ego that causes the pain; we feel rejected and deceived, embarrassed. We doubt our self worth and adequacy. A breakup, especially one in which your partner has cheated on you, can really undermine your self-confidence and shake your self-esteem to the core. Help rebuild your inner stability by impressing yourself with accomplishment - volunteer, take a class, do things that remind you of your value as a person.


    Remember that this pain just has to be survived. It takes a season of time to heal, like a broken arm - there is no magical, instant cure or relief. You won't die from it, though you may feel like you will for a time. Endure. Eventually you will feel better, the pain will lessen, and you will be able to love again.


    This one can't be repeated enough: It's a good time to try something new. Try a new hobby, a style, a sport. It'll keep you going and moving on and if your brain is circling endlessly, obsessing on the details of your pain, learning something new will interrupt the repetitive cycle. Those dusty,rusty old gears need some fresh air and polish!


    If you find yourself compulsively checking your ex's myspace, Facebook, or any other social networking profile, help yourself out and use the Firefox extension, blocksite, which allows you to block the URL to that profile. Sometimes it also helps to take them off your 'Friends' list, or 'de-friend' them, at least for a while. Even if things ended on a clean slate, it can be too painful to see what the other person is up to.


    Your partner has a right to choose to be or not to be with you. Respect the decision. If your partner digs at you again, do behave with dignity. Taking the high road may be hard now, but you'll be glad later that you didn't stoop to the gutter, even though you could have.


    Every day, find something that will make you smile. Smiling really helps, even at the worst time
    sometimes i think we find it harder to get over someone than we should because we dont want to get over them. cos we still care about them and cant let them go.





    try to make a decision to do this for yourself if you feel like that. go out with friends and enjoy yourself if you can and they are willing to take you. try not to go on about your ex all the time with mates tho as they can switch off or get fed up. talk to them about it only if youre in dire need or they ask you, and even then keep it as short as you can.





    if seeing your ex hurts you then dont. dont go to the same places for a while if poss, or dont look at their facebook prof..delete them if necessary. try a change of scene. go on a trip somewhere where theres no memories or anything to remind you.





    have a good cry when you need to but allow yourself to laugh to. is your ex letting you get over them - ie leaving you alone? if so make the most of that. if theyre not, or if theyre purposely upsetting you and rubbing your nose in the fact that its ended, dont retaliate. take yourself away from those situations as much as possible.





    be kind to yourself and tell yourself that whatever went wrong and whoevers to blame, something good is always in the future and you WILL feel better eventually. Good luck x
    keep yourself busy and go out partying with your friends. try and forget about that person, however hard it may be. speak to different guys/girls and maybe go on a few dates to try something new, and you may find someone else. good luck cx
    There's no real advice, except time itself. You can either give it sometime or you can keep on being depressed over it. In either case you'll get over it after a while eventually.

    Tips on letting go of someone you love? (breakups)?

    to make a long story short, my ex was addicted to cocaine/alcohol it caused him to be hot and cold, and love me one day break up with me the next. for all the love and care i put into that relationship to feel people can be so cold and heartless its unbelieveable! its been a week and ive struggled yet sucseeded in not calling or texting him. How do you let go when you love the person so much but questions their love for you? Is it best to keep no contact, or wait a few weeks and try?Tips on letting go of someone you love? (breakups)?
    honestly..its hard to let go of something you care about....no matter what...so give it a while and see what happens..i kno that it will be tough but...if you love him then you will allow him sometime to himself! good luck!~]

    Tips on letting go of someone u love (breakups)?

    to make a long story short, my ex was addicted to cocaine/alcohol it caused him to be hot and cold, and love me one day break up with me the next. for all the love and care i put into that relationship to feel people can be so cold and heartless its unbelieveable! its been a week and ive struggled yet sucseeded in not calling or texting him. How do you let go when you love the person so much but questions their love for you? Is it best to keep no contact, or wait a few weeks and try?Tips on letting go of someone u love (breakups)?
    dnt contact with him.he cant make u happy.addicted boys r just jerk.they will never understand ur feelings.and they can leave u for drugsTips on letting go of someone u love (breakups)?
    1. It takes time to heal especially when you have been with someone for a long time.





    2. When you have give yourself time to heal, you will look back and see how damaging he was to your relationship, and you will move on.





    3. You will never forget your first love, but given time you will get over him.





    4. Yes it is best to end all contact the more distance between you two the easier it is to get over him.
    whatever you do dont text him. or call him.that will make things alot worse. it takes a long time. but it eventually fades away. get rid of everything that reminds you of him. find a new person.
    You shouldn't love in the first place. It just leads to difficulty. Having sex is the only good reason to be in a relationship.
    Was or still is addicted? Break up with him. It may be hard but its hurting you more
    Am in a similar situation but I think its best to keep no contact although am finding it hard to do that myself..lol..





    goodluck x

    Im 16 and ive been told to wait for someone to recover from a breakup and i dont know if the time is now right

    Im 16, the person i like broke up with the person she was going out with a few months ago. I told her i liked her and understandably she said she didnt know how she felt. her friend said to just wait to see how things turn out. Hte one i like has always been my good friend but never the ';hug'; type if you know what i mean. anyway im in the school production with her and in the rehersals i was playin guitar and she came over and put her arms around my back and shared my guitar, she strummed as i shaped the chords. anyway, its just little things like this and i dont know how to interperate them. she is aware i still olike her but she hasnt said anything. and the school production cast are going out all day tomorow and i will be with her for 15 hours+. i dont know what to do. can anyone give me advice on what might be going on?Im 16 and ive been told to wait for someone to recover from a breakup and i dont know if the time is now right
    Just go with the flow. Since she just got out of a relationship, perhaps she misses the personal touch and being close to someone but is not ready for a relationship. You can def. date and flirt w/ a girl w/o any kind of commitment. If she gets close to you like that again, look into her eyes and see how she responds. Perhaps she might lean in for a kiss!!! :)Im 16 and ive been told to wait for someone to recover from a breakup and i dont know if the time is now right
    you should be cautious to advance. She's on the rebound and def needing time to let go and or forget what she just had. No doubt feeling some insecurities. Just be a friend and listen. Thru her words, and her's alone, will answer what you seek.
    well if you never hugged her that creates a problem, but sometimes you have to be bold , you should meet with her someplace private but not cheesy, and tell her you cant stop thinking of her and you really care about her, she has to know your serious!
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  • I am interested in having a juice stall along with snack counter.How much would it cost me in cosmopolitoncity?

    i would like to have a breakup of items if someone could give me. I would also like to know on where could I get the items required(eg counters etc)I am interested in having a juice stall along with snack counter.How much would it cost me in cosmopolitoncity?
    are you serious?

    I think i messed up bad with a girl...?

    ok so i like this girl when we were txtin she said'; i think i just broke up my friend and another guy, have you ever broken 2 people up'; i replied to her ';well i influenced someone 2 breakup with sum 1';





    later on into the day well night it was like 1:23 am and i texted her and said ';u awake'; she replied';yeah ive been txtin dylan';(thats the guy that was dating her friend that she broke up) (she already knows i like her and i kno she likes me we both hav said it but i havent asked her out because i wont see her much over the summer) any ways i txted her bak nd said';looks like i have some compitition'; she said back';hey uh yeah im kinda going out with dylan now'; now im really bummed cause if i asked her out during the summer i wouldent see her and that would kill the relationship!! so my question is how long do u think this will last? they just met each other like a day ago! sorry this was so hard to read and to followI think i messed up bad with a girl...?
    just chill out and be there for her


    summer relationships almost never last long


    be hr shoulder to cry on when its over


    show tht ull always be thr for her


    and then ask her out after she and ths guy break upI think i messed up bad with a girl...?
    ok well if it was meant for u and her it will happen and if it was meant for her and dylan its going to happen and u will find the girl of ur dreams :) good luck. and dont try to ruin them because then she will probably not even want to be ur friend anymore just respect the relationship
    maybe she wasnt the right one for you..find a girl that you care alot about %26amp; that also cares for you %26amp; that you think you will get to see a lot during the summer :] good luck
    well wow if they met a DAY ago and are already dating... that probably won't last long at all.. thats MY guess though who knows... but uh yeah stay in touch over the summer... not TOO much though like every once in a while... like three times a week maybe..
    She's too wishy- washy, find another girl who's not so flakey..
    aahhhhhhh how i would LOVE to go back to being 15 again!
    How do we know, haha!
    Wow sorry to hear that man. I understand that you were just being reasonable in why you didn't ask her out at such an inconvenient time. You gotta take more chances, despite difficulty of summer because u never know what happens in the future, but for now u gotta respect her relationship. For one, she's a rebound so I don't know how long that will last. If I were you though I would move on because she seems like the kind of person who isn't a true friend--she basically stole her friend's boyfriend. While you're having feelings for her, she might not be someone you like as a person down the line, which would only lead you to be sad and feel frustrated over her. I would say talk to her friend, who knows, you might end up liking her. Life is crazy like that.

    Why don't guys like me, and they like my friends?...?

    OK, I'm not trying to sound big-headed but alot of people tell me how gorgeous/beautiful I am. And I am not that boy-crazy as my friends. One of my friends just started to get boy-crazy and she just had a boyfriend and then he sent someone to breakup with her and she was desperate for a boyfriend cause she didnt like being single and their going to the movies and her new ';boyfriend'; wants to kiss her with tongue. And she said yes to him and she new how perverted he is and he has like 5 GIRLFRIENDS! And she know this. And her old boyfriend THEY DIDNT EVEN TALK! Anyway the point of my question I feel as if I am a failure at dating or whatever. I am 13 years old and alot of people SAY they got their first kiss and I feel like I am I ont know but its like I feel as if I will never get my first kiss or whatever. I hope you understand my question. If you need more details just message me.Why don't guys like me, and they like my friends?...?
    Stop freaking out about this, you don't NEED a boyfriend especially at that age, it's sad that you feel like you need one or that having a boyfriend it so important. That way, you're going to come off as so desperate that no one is going to want to be with you anyways, just make sure you don't try so hard and you'll find your true love.. also make sure you don't settle for ANYONE just because they're into you.Wouldn't you much rather meet the guy of your dreams and stay with him forever rather than having so many crappy boyfriends and break-ups? I'm 18 now and I had my first boyfriend at 16. I couldn't be more happy because we're so perfect for eachother and we're so happy together, I'm so lucky that I didn't have to get my heart broken.


    Just don't try so hard and stop thinking about it. Just know that you're beautiful and the right one will come along. Don't waste your love on some crappy boyfriend.Why don't guys like me, and they like my friends?...?
    wow in turnin 14 and i havent got mine and im fine with wait for the right one is fine dell with it lol write back
    Those girls don't have boyfriends, they have people attempting to use them as guinea pigs for things that are new to them that they want to try out. Missing out on that isn't hurting you one bit (but I know you don't believe me, and you won't be satisfied until you're a guinea pig, too.) When you have these experiences (and they are ahead of you, for sure) you want them to mean something. You want to be a participant in your romantic life, not a receptacle. (If you need further clarity on that point, ask your mother). So, continue to respect yourself, and be patient. Missing out on some experiences is actually a blessing.
    hun just like the first gal, i got my first REAL kiss when i was ...well,i was 16, but it was incredible and it was lovely and you should just not worry about the kissing thing...it doesnt matter if you have had a kiss or not, it matters if you care about someone and they care, truely, back and you get together!!


    your only 13, give it a chance to catch up to you!!!


    and just for a thing to think about...


    I got my first kiss in an elevator by a fat guy i didnt know....can you say eeeeewwwww???!!!????


    yeah, then i met this a-MAZING guy and we started hanging out and then one night we just...kissed!


    it was perfect and sweet and we laughed afterwards cuz we just have so much fun together!!!


    you'll find someone soon, just let things happen and....


    they will!!
    ummm... wait for the right guy please! i lost my VIRGINITY to some drunk i didnt even know :( so i only have my first kiss to hold onto and i know who is going to have it.. and i really think he is mr. right. im thirteen by the way. and im totally boy crazy lol, but just because you havent had your first kiss yet doesnt mean guys dont like you... its just.. i dont know. but it aint that. because guys love me but i havnt had my first kiss yet.. guys have made moves on me and stuff lol, but nah! wait for the right one girl!
    Your friends are going out with players who only want one thing and don't love them at all! You don't really want a guy like that! Find a guy who only wants to have one gf, You! If he loves you he won't want to have any other gf's! When they are 15 and have an std or are preggie you will be glad you waited!
    don't get so worked up about it, there is ALOT of people out there who hasn't had their 1st kiss yet, me being one of them and im nearly 17 but i don't worry about it, i've haven't been ready for a boyfriend yet so it doesn't bother me lol your friend is being very stupid with all that nonsense about her boyfriends, don't be like that! your not a failure and you will get that 1st kiss when your time comes, just be patient and be yourself and im sure some nice guy will come along! but honestly don't worry you are only 13, don't try and grow up too fast and don't be put off by what others are doing!
    I didn't have my first kiss until I was 17. I'm a very attractive girl and actually, it made me more desirable when people knew I was ';hard to get';.





    this was good for my esteem back in the day, but really, the whole game is so lame.

    Recovery after breakup?

    I have been with this guy for 7 years. Recently he wanted to breakup because he found someone who is more compatible. I am so sad, 7 years is not a short period of time. Can anyone tell me how to recovery from this? I have been crying every second.Recovery after breakup?
    I'm so sorry that you're hurting from that. I mean that's understandable- 7 years is long for a relationship. But really, the only way to recover is to give it TIME. Don't try to rush and find some one else to be with because that will hurt you even more. Confide in your friends, meet new people, but do not dive into another relationship. Get all the crying out for a while, you can mope around, sit in bed and eat ice cream - but don't do it forever. It's good to get it out of the way. But there's no reason for months and months of it. Don't bring yourself down because your relationship has ended. It won't be your last!Recovery after breakup?
    Susan j only time will take care of all your problems just ask me after 18 years I have found myself single no children and so alone, however I'm happier now than I was last year when this happen and the thing to do is onward and upward.....Good luck
    I would cry and cry until I cannot cry about his butt anymore.


    7years is along time and love is hard to let go. But I do know that this relationship was not meant to be and if he could just let go of you after 7years then he is not worth getting back together if it were ever to happen. I am so curious to think why he would have better with someone else after all 7years is along time.





    Sometimes you do not know ppl whe you think you do. CRY and go out and have fun with people you trust, and lean on someone who can support you. i had a bad breakup in the past when I was alot younger and I learned to let go and grow and get to love yourself...it was not meant to be..and someone out there will hold onto you for more then 7 years babe and keep wanting more years to come. God bless.
    **** him dear live ur life trust me the coming 1 will be way much better then him when some thing gone the better will come be sure dear he dont deserve u
    Im sorry... I was hurt after a 3 year break up. So I dont want to imagine how you're feeling... but I assure you it will get better. It can take a month, 6 months, or even longer than a year to MOVE ON. Maybe thats just it though... you wont MOVE ON... but rather accept it. TIME is KEY. Everybody will say it I can imagine but its the answer nobody wants. While time goes by and you learn to live with this pain, it'll change slowly. Stay active and busy and try and keep your mind from thinking the worst.


    - work out


    -go jobbing


    -take up cooking, gardening, or another hobby.


    I think the nights are the worst, when lying in bed trying to sleep. So try and tune into some late night sitcoms, throw a dvd in (not romantic), or read yourself to bed.


    I doubt you want to hear this, or your situation doesnt apply.... but DO NOT TALK TO HIM. Avoid spots he'll be at, take him out of your cellphone to avoid drunk dialing, and be positive. Im not saying you cant be friends anymore, but for now while you better YOUR life keep him out of it. Not seeing, hearing about him will make you stop thinking about him... even if a little.





    Keith Urban- You'll Think of Me (read lyrics/watch video on youtube)


    I was driving to work one day and heard this, and I couldnt say it better.








    You're a strong person, you dont think you can NOW... but you'll make it.
    ive been in your position before the only way i recovered was keeping my mind off of him which was hard but hanging out with your friends and doing what you love to do best always helps
    oprah helps :)
    you just have to move on. do you really want to be with someone who doesn't want you? don't wait around for him to come back. you just have to go about everyday activities and it will get easier. once it's over NEVER look back. be glad you had the experience but move on. maybe start a new hobby to help you keep your mind off of it. i have never been broken up with so i don't know how that feels but lots of people experience it and they all move on, it is a choice. you can absolutely sit there and mope and sob with self pitty or you can get out there and change your life and find someone better, but ultimately you need to be happy with yourself.

    Can Someone help me understand my breakup?

    About two years ago, I got into a relationship with what seems like the greatest person ever. I have never been in a relationship like this. This girl was the most positive influence I have ever had. She would push me to be so much more then I ever thought I could. She helped me get into college, get to a gym and get fit, and most of all help me to trust someone, as I had just gotten out of a really really bad relationship. Everything was awesome and perfect, and I had actually felt some sort of happiness for once in my life, which had up til then been full of bad events from my childhood. We got engaged last summer.





    Last August she was accepted to a School that was 250 miles away. We were heart broken, but decided we could handle a long term relationship. mid semester she fell into a bad depression, and wanted to come back home and attend a school here, and last December move back, Everything was great again. Last month (January) I noticed she started getting a little moody, and slightly touchy. Being a guy I shrugged it off and blamed it on hormones.





    Three days ago she came to my house, and decided she wanted to break up. When I heard this I couldn't belie it! I asked her way and she said things like ';I don't want a relationship right now';, ';This relationship doesn't feel right to me';, ';I haven't been single since I was 14 (6 years ago) and I want to not be in a relationship';, ';We feel like best friends that occasionally have sex';, ';I want to go out and not feel bad that your not there having fun with me'; and so on. I wanted to support her decision, so I went along with it assuming it was a break. She seemed to have taken it harder then me, and came unglued before she left my house. I txted that night and told her I still loved and cared about her, and how I didnt want it, and that it felt...wrong. She replied saying that she didnt like it either, and it did feel wrong..she just thought it was for the best.





    The next two days went by, and I didn't call or txt her (Tried to give her some space) but the following night she commented me via Facebook wanting to know what had happened to me that night (I posted something about getting pulled over). SO i took it as a chance to call her and talk. I called and we indeed talked. I asked her what we were doing, a break or were we over. She said she couldn't answer that right now because she didn't know. I then proceeded to tell her that I still feel weird about the whole thing. Eventually we got around and she told me we were through, and that if we did get together it would be in a long time. Also that if she was making a mistake, she would internet stalk me for a little while, ask around about me, then work her way back into talking to me. That conversation took place yesterday.





    I have not called her tonight, Nor do I plan to. I have taken her off my phone, off my myspace and facebook, and removed all the pictures I had of her. She still has all the pics of me up and hasn't even changed her relationship status on myspace, and posted saying she felt weird.





    I dont understand whats going on really, even though I guess to some people its pretty clear. I have been reading alot of break up material that state not to call or txt and give her space...which I am doing. WHat I want to know: Is there any chance of us getting back together based on what I have presented? What does most of this mean? and how long before I might hear from her again?





    I don't want to have any replies about ';Moving on'; or ';Getting over it'; if you have to say that, keep it to yourself, I will get over it eventually lie I have in the past, I just want to be with this person, as it is the only relationship I have ever had that felt real. Please someone hel me, as I am in shambles right now.Can Someone help me understand my breakup?
    She may want the space to date around, because it doesn't sound like she's had the chance because she's been in love with you. She probably wants room to be free and shes probably craving the space of being ';single';, but she doesn't know what to do because:


    1. There's no doubt in my mind that she still loves you


    2. Shes spent 6 years of her life being your girl and now it's so hard because you're not there


    3. She feels that she needs the space to be an adult and make new choices





    I really think that she's made her choice, but now she's scared because she didn't know that you'd take it so well, she thought that you'd beg for her back or call her every night to try to persuade her opinion... and you didn't. So now she's confused and feels lost, empty, lonely and confused...





    I wish you luck :/... and I'm sorry. It is a very complicated situation and I think it's just best for you to give her the time that she needs to decide what she wants...


    Easier said than done, love...

    Going through a breakup what should I do?

    My girlfriend of 13 years decided to breakup with me because someone at her job that she likes is interested in her too. We have had some problems but I didn't think she would do this. We have a house together, and dog. She says this is just a separation, she just wants to date for awhile, but it doesn't feel like that to me. She's moving out today for I don't know how long, but says she isn't abandoning me. What should I do? Wait?Going through a breakup what should I do?
    Don't be a doormat man. You need to cry and cry and then say good riddens... If she comes back and you are still free or not in a relationship, then you can decide what you want... But right now, she is giving you your freedom - take it and welcome it with open arms... I know you don't want to be alone - we humans like ';love'; alot and rightly so - but if she doesn't have the love to give you, then you don't want her anyway - you deserve someone who truly loves you!Going through a breakup what should I do?
    Hey man thats bad news





    Dude get a home equity loan, get the house in selling shape sell it and pay off all debts and move on. Shes lost feelings for you and just feel relieved that youre not married.





    I have all that and two kids and my wife has no respect for me so thats what im doing..
    sell the house drop the dog off at her job, in her lap.....





    go home pack up and leave. start over. leave her stuff behind she is a big girl she can get it herself.





    move on because she expects you to be there after her fling is over with.





    i am sure you are not dirt.....time to move on....
    Contrary to another poster on this questions opinion, it is not always the mans fault.





    It sounds to me like your relationship is over, honey. What's happening is that she doesn't want to let go of the security of her relationship with you (hence, saying you're not breaking up; that she's just testing the waters etc) so she can go out and explore other things. That way, if she doesn't find anything better, she feels she can always come crawling back.





    The fact that she's moving out shows that she's serious about moving on. That's a big step! And any time a relationship goes from monogomous to non-monogomous, this is a sure sign of a lack of commitment.





    Make sure she takes all her stuff with her, leaving absolutely no room for debate about whose stuff is what. If your finances are intermingled, seperate them quickly. I suggest you tell her that you can't deal with her 'exploring' other territories. That you deserve and demand a monogomous, committed relationship. If she loves you, she should be focusing her efforts on fixing what went wrong in your relationship, not exploring new ones!





    Tell her this....break it off....(even though technically she already has), spend a lot of time with your freinds, keep the dog (a woman with those kinds of issues shouldn't have that responsibility!) and wait for Ms. Right. She's out there! Don't lose hope!
    Check this website. Lots of good help.





    http://www.soyouvebeendumped.com
    If you wait for her you are an big IDIOT. She tells you she wants to separate to go date for a while... and you would consider waiting for her???? are you stupid. What you do is move the hell on. You don't wait for that ******. She wants to find someone else, you go find someone else too. You seem so weak to me to be asking that question. It's like you're giving her permission to go out with the guy.. and if it doesn't work out... you'll be write there waiting for her like a ******* fool. MOVE ON.
    First of all, I can't help but wonder why she was still just a girlfriend after 13 years; didn't you not want to marry her ?


    Could this make her think that you really didn't want to marry her, and therefore, she needed to move on. And what does she think she is doing, if she doesn't consider it abandonment ?





    For now, do nothing. You're devastated and hurting. Give yourself a chance to catch your breath and do some healing. In the meantime, it also gives her a chance to figure out who and what she really wants too.
    DON'T WAIT FOR HER... IT SEEMS LIKE SHE'S PLANNING ON KEEP U ON THE SIDE IN CASE IT DOESN'T WORK OUT FOR HER. FORGET HER. SHE'S NOT WORTH WAITING FOR IF SHE'S GOING TO DO THIS. IF SHE REALLY WAS WORTH WAITING FOR, SHE WOULDN'T BE ASKING FOR A ';SEPARATION';. IF SHE'S GONNA GO SEE OTHER PEOPLE, WHY CAN'T YOU??!!
    Look, don't wait around for her, move on. I know it's hard, but why would you wait around. She is not appreciating the 13 years together. Remember *Never leave the one you love for the one you like, because the one you like will leave you for the one they love*. The guy she likes might do the same thing to her. What goes around, comes around. Just sell the house, divide what's left and decide on who gets the dog. If you allow her to come and go as she wants; she will play you like a fool. Well good luck, take care.
    well mistake #1, buying a house with someone that you are not married too. Do not make it again.





    If she comes back why would you want her? Talk to a lawyer about what you can do in your state to get the house and move on,wiser and eventually happier. All women are not like her, but take your time before you move onto the next one,
    don't wait. she wants to play the field, and, if she doesn't like it, she wants to be able to come back to you. would you want her back after not knowing who and what she has been experimenting with? would you ever be able to trust her again? and what if she decides that she does like it out there, what will you be waiting for then? get a lawyer for the house and custody of the dog...and start moving on with your life. she is looking at you only as a safety net...just in case.
    OUCH MAN


    I dunno, will you be able to sit around and wait while your gf prances around town dating other people??? What brought about these feelings in her? I think you should tell her how you feel. I mean, you can't just walk out of someone's life to see if you're missing out on something and expect them to be sitting there waiting for you like nothing happened! That's pretty f'ing selfish.


    Talk to her about why she feels she needs this time apart.


    You guys need to get to the bottom of this.
    if you love her give her ,her space and she what happens maybe you 2 need a lil break..
    Im so sorry to hear about your girlfriend. In my opion she is trying to leave the door open with you so when she realizes that the grass is NOT greener on the other side she would still have you to come back to.


    Take it from me, it's better to cut the ties, ssell the house give her the dog and move on wit your life. There is someone out there waiting for someone like you. You deserve better then what she is doing to you.


    Be grateful you weren't married, and had children together, a dog is hard enough!


    Hang in there and take up a hobby make yourself busy and unavailable to her. She will soon see what she gave up and I promise will come back to a better you.


    When she does, it won't be her decision if she wants you, it will be yours if you still want her.


    In the mean time keep your head up, have a beer and call it a day!
    Do not wait. However, don't jump into anything either. Allow yourself time to heal and mourn the end of this relationship. If you jump into anything too soon you will bring all the bad stuff from this relationship in. She sounds like she wants to explore, but still have you to fall back on if she needs to. Do not be that person. If she comes back and you can fit it into your life, then that is one thing, only if it is what you want. However, do not make changes just to accomodate her once she has chosen to leave. If she is free to date others, so are you. Do not let her think you are just there waiting for her, she may just use that against you some day.
    What did you do to her? Abuse her? Verbally abuse her? Physically abuse her?





    Sorry, but the truth is, it's ALWAYS THE MAN'S FAULT. Women don't just get up and leave like that, obviously you did something to her.
    get an attorney for the legal matters. get a counselor for the emotional ones -you need to go thru the 5 stages of grief before you will be able to heal from the loss of the relationship. think with your rational brain during this period and use the legal counsel to ensure this.

    My ex is dating someone new 3 days after breakup?

    Sorry this is long!





    Me and my ex had been going out for 4 months. We had a good relationship %26amp; we loved each other a lot or so that's what i thought. There was a time when i decided i needed my own space %26amp; once we hung out less, that's when the arguing began. He ended up breaking up w/ me over a text message saying that we need to break up %26amp; we are going in 2 different directions. On a friday i found out that hours before he broke up w/ me he was hanging out with this girl %26amp; they were going to the movies the same day! He even offered to pay for her and everything. I was really pissed off. I was even more mad when i found out he was seeing somebody else and it was that girl! (he always said he never liked girls that did drugs, %26amp; this girl does all that..so it makes me wonder) And to make it worse they are keeping it a secret probably so he doesnt end up looking like an *******, even though people already know.At school i would pass him by %26amp; he would try to hide behind his friends or look down whenever he saw me. He didn't have the courage to even look at me. It felt like he never even cared for me at all. He didn't consider my feelings. Guys/girls why would he go into a new relationship so quickly? Have you ever been in this situation? How did you feel? How did you get over it? If you've been one to start dating someone else soon after a breakup why did you do it?My ex is dating someone new 3 days after breakup?
    haha, that sucks,


    He never loved you I guess.My ex is dating someone new 3 days after breakup?
    you probably don't want to read this but he probably liked the girl while you guys were dating and that's how he asked her out so quickly. he sounds like an incredible douche and its a good thing you guys are broken up. you can move on and find some one better.
    well the only thing im thinking is that he was probably already talking to the chick while you guys were still together and he probably fell for her and thats maybe why he ended your relationship in a sudden .


    it happens alot .
    Forget it and move on...let karma deal with it...and plz don't let him crawl back to you he might bring along some germs he picked up from the movies





    Good Luck!
    if u ever have the oppertunity to beat the crap out of him please take advantage if it.
    he probably liked her while you were going out ...hanging out behind ur back. id say **** him and move on he seems like a ***
    He's a jerk honestly :|


    ***** move from his part, he's probally just one of those guys :
    |Oh, he cut that filly from the herd long before you broke up.
    you got played

















    like a fiddle. maybe youll learn so next time you wont get f u c k e d.
    hes a dick
    you stilll love him?
    Okay, my friend dated the guy I liked, while she still had feelings for her ex-boyfriend.


    I thought that was kinda scandalis, but whatever. lol.


    And her ex treated her like ****. Made her cry all the time, and made her life miserable.





    So, the guy i liked broke up with my friend and then the next day she posts on her myspace saying how much she was in love with her ex.


    I was like, wow. After you just got out of a relationship? and now there getting ready to go out.





    That **** is redonkulous!! i couldn't believe her!


    I really dont' think that you should move into a relationship that fast as soon as you get out of one, its just stupid.


    People are stupid if they do that in my opinion. lol.


    Your ex seems kind of a player to me, cause if he really did like you when you guys were going out he would have given himself some time to think when he wanted to be in another relationship, not just HOP right in to another one.
    Thats what happens when women tell men they want space. Men find other women who know what they want. I've done it before and it was not the right thing. I shouldnt have done it and I regret it however, that doesnt change the fact that someone new makes getting over someone else much easier at least temporarily. If you can't understand you should read your question over, it obvious that you know when the problems began, why after 4 months did you need ';space';???
    Been there done that many times! I know how much it hurts! You feel like such a waste of time. I know :( But guys tend to move so quickly because of many reasons. -Theyre a player that wants to see how many girls he can get -They get bored quickly and want something new every few months -They may feel it wasnt going to work and theyre actually hurt and dating again so fast is their way of forgeting and coping(trust me guys do do this!) -Maybe they think you did something wrong and they want to be spiteful. For what ever reason guys do this, it hurts us :( They dont care as long as they have their new ';relationship';. And the guy that played you, is probably going to play the girl hes with now too. How to get over it? Delete his number, delete on your facebook/twitter/myspace, forget it. Hes not worth thinking about. And if you see him out somewhere, be polite and speak and move on to where your headed. I know its easier said then done, but trust me...you WILL get over it in time :)
    hopefully this will make you feel better: I was dating a guy for 10 months. during this time we had a mutual friend that i was jealous of. I always thought he really fancied her for more than a friend. I tried to be mature and talk about it and even gave him the option of breaking up so he could be with her. He would always react really poorly ands say things like ';stop being such a jealous b****'; etc and swear that he didnt ';like'; her. Then i find out about all these late night phone calls they had and she was his ';favorite person'; and ';sister'; and all this cute ****. our relationship slowly tapered off, mostly because I felt like a *****/crazy person for having a problem with their relationship. Two days after we break up he's with her. Voila. how did i get over it? Just tried to have a good summer without him and moved on. its important to remember that just because it happened once doesnt mean it will always be this way. Don't be so hurt that you prevent yourself from taking risks and falling in love with someone else
    He got into a new relationship so quickly cause he was more than likely messing with the girl while u 2 were together. Thats where the bs breakup came from..but dont worry they always miss what they got when its gone. BUT DONT TAKE IT BACK! MAKE HIM MISS U..MAKE HIM SEE HIS MISTAKE AND LET IT BITE HIM IN HIS A**! I used to be the same way he was..when i was young immature and unstable with my feelings. If u let him back he's gonna do it all over again and continue to play. As far as getting over it..take ur space..give urself a deep breath and move on to the next..THERES MORE FISH IN THE SEA BOYS ARE LIKE BUSES MISS ONE NEXT 15 ONES COMING! Although it may seem hard..the feelings may still seem attached..pinch urself and snap out the dream or him and his bs. Find u a few friends..keep ur options open no commitments and when the next good one comes along it will all fall into place..when ur brokenheart is healed.But be sure not to bounce into a relationship right away cause rebound is NEVER good. It solves nothing and only hurts both parties in the end...u play witha boys feelings u dont really like cause ur filling a void...and u still feel like crap cause ur filling a void with someone pointless.





    ~*~D3Andra Capric3~*~
    guys are ***** like that we just dont like to stay single or we just dont know how to live without sex....yes ive been in this situation before and i have a question kinda like this up right now...i was sad and angry....i never did get over it...can you answer my question? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AhTFbH_qOPR0EyXAuCJI6d7sy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20091220202559AAOL1eP

    How would someone go about getting their dog back after a breakup if their previous partner kept it? ?

    Alright, so I'm trying to help my friend get her dog back.. She moved back to Hawaii from Washington, but her dog had to stay in WA due to quarantine laws. Her dog was staying with her ex bf but now he won't ship the dog to her in HI. How could she go about getting her animal back ? Could an animal control person go and repossess the dog if she had papers? Or what? How would someone go about getting their dog back after a breakup if their previous partner kept it? ?
    Proof of ownership is all you need.





    Vet bills in her name, maybe....





    OR my personal favorite - Microchip or Tattoo. No better proof than that. Hopefully your friend was wise enough to have it done.How would someone go about getting their dog back after a breakup if their previous partner kept it? ?
    She will have to check with the state of WA dog laws. Many times the partner will claim the dog was left with them or given to them. A lot of States consider dogs property and possession is 9/10 of the law.






    She would need to speak to a lawyer and produce a receipt to the fact that she paid for the dog and the dog is in her name.
    Watch Legally Blonde 1. When Elle goes with Paulette to get her dog back. FUNNIEST THING IN THE WORLD!

    How long after a breakup did it take for you to hook up with someone new?

    I broke up with my ex (who I dated for 6 years) in 2007 and just went on my first date last weekend. It was awkward and weird and I was very shy and nervous but since that time, I've felt like I haven't been ready but then, out of nowhere I started talking to a guy and it felt great. Sometimes, you just know when it's right for you and you get back on your feet again and move on. It's a different time for everyone.How long after a breakup did it take for you to hook up with someone new?
    6 months to one year. That's coming from a serious relationship.

    Before breakup she used 2 luv me & nw she hates me so much . wat is dis bt still wants 2 b frndz ?? help guys?

    before breakup she realy loved me alot . me , my frdnz and everyone around us helped 2 get back 2gether . bt it was as if she did not want 2 b wid me . she said dat she just wanted 2 b frdnz ??


    how can u b friends with sumone u luv involved with someone else ?? our breakup was due to misunderstandings bt still she was nt ready to give it another chance . hw can v b frdnz ??Before breakup she used 2 luv me %26amp; nw she hates me so much . wat is dis bt still wants 2 b frndz ?? help guys?
    Personally i never stay friends with people i date. if we finish





    This is only because there's to much history and one always moves on faster than the other. The one left behind is always playing catchup and it hurts and sucks





    yes talking from experience.Before breakup she used 2 luv me %26amp; nw she hates me so much . wat is dis bt still wants 2 b frndz ?? help guys?
    it could be a case of she may wat to see how things go with you as friends if she does love you she will come back, if she doesnt you have your answer there. You cant be friends if you r both in love and not together or if 1 loves the other because you will just do things to hurt each other without realising.
    try to understand other miss if u had so much of misunderstanding...........
    maybe shes with sumone else

    Recent breakup: How do I stop hurting and feeling jealous imagining my ex with someone else?

    We just broke up and the thoughts of him with someone else and moving on are driving me crazy. Any one know how to deal with this or have any words of wisdom?





    Thanks! :)Recent breakup: How do I stop hurting and feeling jealous imagining my ex with someone else?
    Take your mind off of it by doing something else. Spend more time with your friends that you most likely haven't seen much of since you've been in a relationship. They'll get you through the toughest of times. When you feel ready, then go out and try to meet someone new.Recent breakup: How do I stop hurting and feeling jealous imagining my ex with someone else?
    no but when you find out please let me know
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  • How long should you Wait..?

    when you break up with someone (messy breakup after 1 year) how long do you think you should wait before dating again..





    im afraid in case im being with someone else just to replace d last oneHow long should you Wait..?
    Just date, these stupid rules are made up by society. There is no proof that you need to wait after a break up to date other people. Who are all of the morons that come up with all of these rules? lol Hope you find someone nice.How long should you Wait..?
    After taking a good amount of time to yourself. You take that time to reflect on the relationship. Figure out what you did wrong, what you did right, what you can change or improve. Figure out what you truly want. Once you figure things out and know you've moved on, then you should start dating again. But there is no set time limit. Only you can determine that. Best of luck to you.
    There is no time limit to wait!





    if you've stayed friends then that's brilliant...


    if you aren't talking, then that's an issue.





    Breaking up with someone is never easily, and it can be worse when you won't to get back with them and they don't wan to.





    talk again, go on dates. Start from the beginning again, but remember what happened last time and try to avoid the arguments again.





    hope i helped xx
    its nothing to wait long time. if u found some one, really the person is trustable, u can go head, but dont find someone to breakup again and again, this is not game, this is ur life. so there is no time limit, its hapens, u have to make choice perfectly. go ahead, bye take care
    Hi wait until you feel ready to date.


    Good Luck
    I'd say at least a month.

    Can someone please tell me how to get over a hard breakup?

    My boyfriend, who i was in love with, moved to all the way to the other side of the country. He wanted to do long distance but i didn't want to be in a testing/ calling relationship so i broke it off even though i still love him very much. I know it's better to just get over him but i just can't. Can someone please help me?Can someone please tell me how to get over a hard breakup?
    i know how it feels to have the one you love move far away. but you did the right thing, most long distance relationships never work out, theres always questions you ask yourself about what he's doing.





    its not gonna be easy but you just have to move on, start hanging out with your friends more, meet new people %26amp; just keep your mind off of it. sooner or later it will get easier.Can someone please tell me how to get over a hard breakup?
    Yea. Its really no perfect answer to this question. When it comes to break ups, u have to just know that ';time heals all wounds';. Its gonna hurt like hell, but soon u will be able to cope, even if ure love for him never parts. As someone else said, try to find a hobby, hang out with friends, etc to pass the time by until then. Good luck.
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l9K4BKkLaCI





    Feel better.
    find some one new or take up a hobbby you really like