My ex is dating someone new 3 days after breakup?

Sorry this is long!





Me and my ex had been going out for 4 months. We had a good relationship %26amp; we loved each other a lot or so that's what i thought. There was a time when i decided i needed my own space %26amp; once we hung out less, that's when the arguing began. He ended up breaking up w/ me over a text message saying that we need to break up %26amp; we are going in 2 different directions. On a friday i found out that hours before he broke up w/ me he was hanging out with this girl %26amp; they were going to the movies the same day! He even offered to pay for her and everything. I was really pissed off. I was even more mad when i found out he was seeing somebody else and it was that girl! (he always said he never liked girls that did drugs, %26amp; this girl does all that..so it makes me wonder) And to make it worse they are keeping it a secret probably so he doesnt end up looking like an *******, even though people already know.At school i would pass him by %26amp; he would try to hide behind his friends or look down whenever he saw me. He didn't have the courage to even look at me. It felt like he never even cared for me at all. He didn't consider my feelings. Guys/girls why would he go into a new relationship so quickly? Have you ever been in this situation? How did you feel? How did you get over it? If you've been one to start dating someone else soon after a breakup why did you do it?My ex is dating someone new 3 days after breakup?
haha, that sucks,


He never loved you I guess.My ex is dating someone new 3 days after breakup?
you probably don't want to read this but he probably liked the girl while you guys were dating and that's how he asked her out so quickly. he sounds like an incredible douche and its a good thing you guys are broken up. you can move on and find some one better.
well the only thing im thinking is that he was probably already talking to the chick while you guys were still together and he probably fell for her and thats maybe why he ended your relationship in a sudden .


it happens alot .
Forget it and move on...let karma deal with it...and plz don't let him crawl back to you he might bring along some germs he picked up from the movies





Good Luck!
if u ever have the oppertunity to beat the crap out of him please take advantage if it.
he probably liked her while you were going out ...hanging out behind ur back. id say **** him and move on he seems like a ***
He's a jerk honestly :|


***** move from his part, he's probally just one of those guys :
|Oh, he cut that filly from the herd long before you broke up.
you got played

















like a fiddle. maybe youll learn so next time you wont get f u c k e d.
hes a dick
you stilll love him?
Okay, my friend dated the guy I liked, while she still had feelings for her ex-boyfriend.


I thought that was kinda scandalis, but whatever. lol.


And her ex treated her like ****. Made her cry all the time, and made her life miserable.





So, the guy i liked broke up with my friend and then the next day she posts on her myspace saying how much she was in love with her ex.


I was like, wow. After you just got out of a relationship? and now there getting ready to go out.





That **** is redonkulous!! i couldn't believe her!


I really dont' think that you should move into a relationship that fast as soon as you get out of one, its just stupid.


People are stupid if they do that in my opinion. lol.


Your ex seems kind of a player to me, cause if he really did like you when you guys were going out he would have given himself some time to think when he wanted to be in another relationship, not just HOP right in to another one.
Thats what happens when women tell men they want space. Men find other women who know what they want. I've done it before and it was not the right thing. I shouldnt have done it and I regret it however, that doesnt change the fact that someone new makes getting over someone else much easier at least temporarily. If you can't understand you should read your question over, it obvious that you know when the problems began, why after 4 months did you need ';space';???
Been there done that many times! I know how much it hurts! You feel like such a waste of time. I know :( But guys tend to move so quickly because of many reasons. -Theyre a player that wants to see how many girls he can get -They get bored quickly and want something new every few months -They may feel it wasnt going to work and theyre actually hurt and dating again so fast is their way of forgeting and coping(trust me guys do do this!) -Maybe they think you did something wrong and they want to be spiteful. For what ever reason guys do this, it hurts us :( They dont care as long as they have their new ';relationship';. And the guy that played you, is probably going to play the girl hes with now too. How to get over it? Delete his number, delete on your facebook/twitter/myspace, forget it. Hes not worth thinking about. And if you see him out somewhere, be polite and speak and move on to where your headed. I know its easier said then done, but trust me...you WILL get over it in time :)
hopefully this will make you feel better: I was dating a guy for 10 months. during this time we had a mutual friend that i was jealous of. I always thought he really fancied her for more than a friend. I tried to be mature and talk about it and even gave him the option of breaking up so he could be with her. He would always react really poorly ands say things like ';stop being such a jealous b****'; etc and swear that he didnt ';like'; her. Then i find out about all these late night phone calls they had and she was his ';favorite person'; and ';sister'; and all this cute ****. our relationship slowly tapered off, mostly because I felt like a *****/crazy person for having a problem with their relationship. Two days after we break up he's with her. Voila. how did i get over it? Just tried to have a good summer without him and moved on. its important to remember that just because it happened once doesnt mean it will always be this way. Don't be so hurt that you prevent yourself from taking risks and falling in love with someone else
He got into a new relationship so quickly cause he was more than likely messing with the girl while u 2 were together. Thats where the bs breakup came from..but dont worry they always miss what they got when its gone. BUT DONT TAKE IT BACK! MAKE HIM MISS U..MAKE HIM SEE HIS MISTAKE AND LET IT BITE HIM IN HIS A**! I used to be the same way he was..when i was young immature and unstable with my feelings. If u let him back he's gonna do it all over again and continue to play. As far as getting over it..take ur space..give urself a deep breath and move on to the next..THERES MORE FISH IN THE SEA BOYS ARE LIKE BUSES MISS ONE NEXT 15 ONES COMING! Although it may seem hard..the feelings may still seem attached..pinch urself and snap out the dream or him and his bs. Find u a few friends..keep ur options open no commitments and when the next good one comes along it will all fall into place..when ur brokenheart is healed.But be sure not to bounce into a relationship right away cause rebound is NEVER good. It solves nothing and only hurts both parties in the end...u play witha boys feelings u dont really like cause ur filling a void...and u still feel like crap cause ur filling a void with someone pointless.





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guys are ***** like that we just dont like to stay single or we just dont know how to live without sex....yes ive been in this situation before and i have a question kinda like this up right now...i was sad and angry....i never did get over it...can you answer my question? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AhTFbH_qOPR0EyXAuCJI6d7sy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20091220202559AAOL1eP