yeah i no what u mean, it takes a while to get over an ex boy friend.. What u have to do is not contact him, delete all messages and emails from him and try to keep busy. If u keep busy it will be easier to not think of him as much!! And later on it will get better, u just need to give it time, and u will end up getting over him:)How do i get over someone and a breakup?
Find something to keep you and your mind busy. :)
You'll get over him in no time.
You have to be honest with yourself. Getting over people takes some time.. Try treating your breakup like an alcoholics anonymous meeting: Accept that you are helpless to your need for this guy and accept that you will not like anyone else for awhile, realize that you are helpless to help yourself, and give 10 points to everyone who helped you answer your question; addiction gone!
Well its time my dear... The more of it the better you will feel. Stay busy %26amp; keep positive. Remember positivity attracts the same...
Good luck.
Miz Peacock,
If you want to get back together with your ex, then give that a try first before just automatically moving on.
But here's the deal. You have to stop wallowing. If you want to get back together with him, you have to be strong, confident, and courageous. He needs to see that in you. And I know you can do that too.
The strength comes from knowing you are taking steps to get him back, even though he has no clue that is what you are doing, Confidence comes from knowing it is possible for him to want you as he did before and courage comes from standing on your own, letting him go and not letting the fact that he may be seeing someone else bother you.
Just remember, it's temporary. With a little work and a lot of faith, you'll be the one he wants and won't ever let go.
Here are the keys though...
Apologize if necessary
Give him some time and a little distance
Work on you/go to the gym, start a hobby
After some time contact him as a FRIEND
Keep working on you
Stay in touch with him and build on the friendship
Don't push him or rush things.
Eventually, you'll find either he wants you back, you possible you really don't want to be with him after all.
Fact is you can't stop.You just endure it everyday until it's gone.
But you can atleast minimize the lonesomeness. Think of all the adverse effect that he caused you that's the best way so far.
You can't also stop caring for him because obviously you have love/ed him.
My advice is try caring more about yourself more than him, more than anyone. Try investing great things for yourself. you'll figure things for yourself. You'll be with another guy and that is for sure and you don't want to be all messed up when that happens.
Hang out with friends or get a hobby.
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