How do you deal with a breakup?

how do you deal with a breakup from someone youve been with for years and you have a child in commom? i am totally heartbroken and i dont know what to do.How do you deal with a breakup?
Tell him that if you are gonna break up, you are gone! Why would you think about letting him control you? Like breaking up but you can't move out? WTF?!?!?!





I think he wants the seafood buffet but orders pizza on the side when the craving arises.How do you deal with a breakup?
first i would try to get him back unless it were due to cheating. if its due to betrayal, its also hard to get past, because your not only loosing your love but to another woman or man. the grief process takes awhile its not a quick thing u can just get over just like that. some people find it comforting to seek god in times like this it really helped me also some people join self help therapy groups where u will find a support system of others who want to help u. u could cut all ties but when u have a child u just can't do that easily if the child is still a minor. i myself would get me the best attorney i could get, and make sure u get whats coming to u financially, because there is nothing worse than loosing your spouse and having to give up your lifestyle. u deal with it one day at a time, if u don't work, get a job to keep you occupied.
First, I would move out of the house. It's hard to get over someone when you're looking them in the face everyday.





Time heals all wounds. I know it sucks, but sometimes you just have to stick it out until things get better. Try this though: write him a letter. Don't actually give it to him, but write it as if you were. Say exactly what you feel and tell him exactly what you wish you could say face to face. I tried this after breaking up with someone I'd been dating for a few years. It actually brought closure and helped me feel a little better. Good luck!
Staying friends is not a good idea - an ongoing connection hurts you and prevents you from moving on.





There are books that will help you: ';Coming Apart Why Relationships End'; And ';It's a Breakup not a Breakdown';





I found good relationship advice here:


http://www.advicemagnet.com/end_relationship.html
You don';t say what brought this break up around. I am sorry for your heartbreak. The only thing you can do is take one day at a time, and try to do some things that will take you mind somewhere else. Time is a good healer.
its all pain and no gain, let nature do its thing and give yourself the time to heal, stay away from relationships until you heal,,, take care of the kids and yourself,,, you will recoup and be able to laugh and havve fun ,,, best of luck
I turned to the LORD with all my heart and HE got me through it.HE loves you and cares about the pain you are going through and will do the same for you.Seek HIM with all your heart hon.
You live your life one day at a time. Think about things that don't concern them and you move on.
why do u want to break p with him plz tell details