Monday, August 16, 2010

Still Sad from past breakup?

about 2 months ago I had a confusing breakup with someone I was dating for a while.. unforunate to my dissmay I ended up before hand starting to fall hard for him, but I never said this as I didn't want to scare him off.. Either way after the breakup which to this day I don't know what happened and could never find out I still find myself thinking about it all and him everyday and then getting sad and depressed because of it all... I don't know how to get past this and have started dating again, but everytime I meet someone I don't find myself all that attracted to them and hate that I'm having to do this all over again!! It's even harder with the holidays just a few short weeks away.. any suggestions on how to get past this?Still Sad from past breakup?
Get over it. It wasn't like you were married to him/her or a long term relationship. Move on.Still Sad from past breakup?
get a new boyfriend.


make out with him.


fall in love by that then forget for X
Get over it. Find someone new.
It's completely impossible to find a guy


who won't ever hurt you,


so go for the guy who will


make the pain worthwhile
Have you noticed that most of these types of questions are from girls or women? That's because men don't handle relationships like we do. Why-oh-why are you spending your time thinking about this guy who broke up with you and has probably replaced you two or three times since then. If he doesn't want to be with you, move on. Not to somebody else b/c you will just fall head-over-heels for them too, take some time and love yourself. If you're in love with yourself, you'll find it's much harder for someone else to get in there and hurt you so easily. Be single for a little while. Enjoy it!
this has happened to mi but not trough a brake up deprestion is hard to get past.this answer may be weird but ....dont try to be tired yes thats right dont stay up alnite go out in the day (no nite clubs). stay excited for something thats going to happen later on in the week.go on a bike ride get yr self outside and movin.DONT talk to people more or less just be yr self u will get over him and find yr self not even thinking about him.
It seems like it is still too soon for you to start dating someone else again. The best thing is time. I broke it off with someone that decided to abandon me during a family crisis, and I never thought he would just abandon me like that. I had to break things off with through a phone text because he wouldn't talk to me. That was the day we nearly lost my neice. So it was very confusing to me, and hard to get over because I thought i meant more to him than that. I thought i meant more to him than how he decided to avoid me when I asked to talk to him face-to-face after the breakup. The only thing that helped me was to get him to talk to me, answer my questions, and ask him why things ended the way they did. You may need to have that closure. It took me four months before I finally couldn't take it any more and decided to get him to talk to me. Unbelieveably, I started feeling about 80% better about a week later. I hope that you can get him to clarify things with you, and that you feel better soon.
go to Starbucks and buy some hot coffee
i totally understand what your going through,since i am going through similar emotions, however, my breakup was last week, and its sooo hard! what you have to do, is just try to focus on the holidays! try to spend more time with your friends %26amp; family, don't do anything that would get you to remember him
move on ....the more you are going to thin about it the more you are going to feel it.... move on explore....
i totally understand what your going through, unfortunately i can't offer much help, since i am going through similar emotions, however, my breakup was last week, and its sooo hard! what you have to do, is just try to focus on the holidays! try to spend more time with your friends %26amp; family, don't do anything that would get you to remember him - just try to enjoy your hollidays, don't let a break up bring you down.
Wait until the hoildays have passed and start the new year at a fun party...you never know who you will kiss at midnight:)
ask him why
Are you quite young or have never really been in love before? I know what you are going through. It's horrible the first time your heart is broken and you'll probably never forget your first love. But I can promise you that even though it DOES happen more than once, it gets easier to handle. The first time my heart was broken I was like you %26amp; I was very unhappy for a fair while but the second time (and last!!!!) I got over a lot quicker. Just be sure to surround yourself with friends as I did that and it helps beleive me!!! Make sure you keep dating as the more you date the more your likley to find someone who'll heal your heart.





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Only time will help you get over this if you really loved him. I still have warm thoughts and miss the first (and only) boy I ever loved. I met an married another and have had a good life but am sorry things didn't work out with my lst love.
You just have to late go...the past is the past think about the future and start dating again
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