10pts for a good answer, ex questions..?

she dumped me over text, said she met someone...... i ask to talk ,she says na im ok thanks....this was 5 weeks ago, and i havent tried to contact her and she hasnt either...





we had JUST got back together, and she was saying how we are meant to be, and that she is so incredibly happy and how she wants to make love to me and be with me, how she cant wait to come home and stay with me, (she is in cali, im in ohio) she is coming home beginning of march





so i tell her ill fly out to see her, and stay with her, drive back with her ( i have a month off, so i am able to do this) the day after we get back together, i buy a ticket to fly out... but then find out there is an issue with my tax refund, so i tell her i cant come, even tho i already told her id be there that night....





she doesnt act mad, but attitude kind of changes, like she closes up ....then the text breakup about meeting someone....





she was so prepared to be with me, cause had i came out, we were going to stay together for the rest of the time in cali, and then come back to ohio and stay together....





why did she do this? anger? disappointment? cold feet?





we were together for over a year, long distance for 8 months.. and it was finally ending...another note... she seems to have been developing deep self esteem issues, that may be manifesting itself as an eating disorder, if that helps at all10pts for a good answer, ex questions..?
I agree with Tila. Long distance relationships tend not to work, especially if you're continuing a relationship that wasn't long distance in the first place. It takes a lot of dedication, and more often than not, only one of the people has it. This happens. It seems like she was already with someone new and she was going to tell you when you came out. But she just went on and told you because you weren't coming.10pts for a good answer, ex questions..?
I think that she may be having a hard time with the long distanc relationship. IF she does really love you, maybe you not being able to fly over that night disappointed her maybe she is a litle upset about it.





IF she feels less connected to you and did meet someone else, maybe the long distance thing isn't working.





Ask her if you two can talk about this as adults.
she probably did find someone else...probably didn't work out and now she's back. Dont fall for it.