Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Relationship problems?

I recently went through a breakup with someone I was completely in love with. To give u some background info I was with him, lost my virginity to him, planned on a future with him but the reason why we broke up is because we were horrible to each other. I mean we would fight almost everyday and when we weren't fighting we were ignoring each other I feel like i barely know who he is at this point. Anyway a week ago i was at his house getting my belongings and we started to make-out and before i knew it we were on the bed. I stopped him and said ';i cant do this, im either your girlfriend or im not and if im not im going home.'; he tryed to convince me to stay but i didn't want him to see me cry so i left. He got all butt-hurt about it and now im not sure if he really meant things would change or if i made the right decision by leaving. Obviously i still love him but i just cant go back into that horrible relationship. Should i get him back? How would i? Did i make the right choice?


Advice please?Relationship problems?
Why were you horrible to eachother if you loved eachother ? Lack of communication? what was it ?





Every relationships has arguments, but if its a consistant problem %26amp; they get very out of hand...take a long time to be resolved...or a person starts trying to win the argument instead of actually understanding how the other person feels then you have to sort out why that is before you go back into it.





You should talk to him about how he feels about things.....does he feel like he wants to get back with you? And if so, you need to discuss what the problems were with your relationship and how/if they can be fixed. You both need to be aware of the issues and both be working towards solving it.





If you both feel like that, you could give it another go. Explain to him that you both need to be aware of HOW things will change...not just words. If you dont feel like that then move on. Its up to you %26amp; him.Relationship problems?
As much as it hurt you, you made the right choice.


Dont get back at him he will get whats coming to him.


But if you want to get back at him when you see him tease him and were sexii clothes and stuff. Gudd luck

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