How do you stop yourself from liking someone after a breakup?

So first I know you're going to need details: Firstly I'm 17 so this can help you gauge just how much I liked him. Maybe even loved him. Next he was my first. My first everything. My first make-out and lover. We were just friends with benefits and never officially became a couple but the emotions were there for both of us. At least I thought it was both of us. Now last Friday he said he didn't know if he liked me or if he still wanted to have sex and this whole week we haven't been talking. So finally I asked him if he wanted to break things off and he said yes because it felt like we were dating and he doesn't want a relationship. Now I've been expecting this so I'm not heartbroken. But it still hurts. Is there a way to make this easier? And this whole ';relationship'; has been going for about 4 months.How do you stop yourself from liking someone after a breakup?
He soo was'nt worth it. He was just in it for the sex. Your first love/makeout guy or whatever you want to call him is always the hardest to get over. It will hurt unfortunately :( But after a week or so you will feel better.





Do things to take your mind off him like hang with friends, do your favourite hobbies watch movies etc..


Like someone new to get over him. You WILL find someone different. I really do hope you feel better soon because I hate the feeling that your going through. It's happened to me too.How do you stop yourself from liking someone after a breakup?
Yes. In my opinion you can't stop liking someone in a couple of hours. Once you had some sort of feelings for someone and it was strong you need time. So what you have to do is avoid contact with the person and keep yourself busy but do not do things that would remind you of the person. Very so-on you would get over him.
I'm sorry.


I know it hurts.


There isn't really any special trick to getting over someone.


Mostly, it just takes time.


You could try starting to date someone else, but that may or may not turn out well.


Sometimes it helps to get your mind off that person.


And sometimes, they just turn into a rebound.
You can not stop your self from liking someone. If you like him that much tell him how you feel. Don't worry about it get yourself back on the playing fields. Try not to think of him and try to talk to him like you do to all your friends.
The only reason a teenage guy would walk away from sex is because he has started getting it elsewhere. Move on as the best cure for getting over an old relationship is a new one.
Delete him frm your life





he deleted u





move on theres probably someone way much better that u see and talk to everyday
You go out with someone else that is better looking.
alchohal.
Start liking someone else - Keep busy
I've been there. The only thing that heals that is time.
well really things like this take time to heal. there is no real way to say that you can just get over him at any given time.i mean you should have been in a relationship with him any way if he took your virginity it does not make sense to have a friend with benefits and that's where i thin kn you went wrong there is no such thing as a friend with benefits if you could have loved that guy maybe he thought that is was all that you two were ever going to be i think that you should have not let this go on for so long with out realizing that that may not be a great idea
Well, you see, this might seem somewhat odd and weird for you, but before these 4 months, you must have had an imaginary, ideal boy in your mind that you used to like or rather love, and when you began liking this boy, you merged that ideal one with him. (Right?)





So now, you will have to give thought to that ideal imaginary boy (I know its damn tough) and you start thinking about him, and you believe that this all breaking up happened for good because there must be a boy exactly like the imaginary one who's made for me, you know, and you'll be coming across him soon. And with this, you live life. After all, life ain't just about love and sex, you know, you can find yourself more into something else, you know, like books, movies, studies, anything that you like.





All the best....

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