Don't you hate it when?

people change. for the worse i mean, i know sometimes it can be good.





but my ex-boyfriend who i was in love with was a genuinely nice guy, you know, the works. we were each other's first loves. you'd think that wouldn't ever go away ! now its as though i don't exist, and he's shed his goody goody image for the drug scene.





it really bothers me ! he was my first love you know, so i just wish i could fix things. but i know i can't.





i'm not looking to get back with him (i swear i'm completely past him !) but i wish we could maintain some sort of a friendship, instead of completely ignoring one another. plus, there was no closure with our breakup.





can someone give me thoughts on the subject or ideas on how to work with this?





i mean, is it even worth it?Don't you hate it when?
ah the drug scene


the infamous drug scene


so whats drugs he doing idk just curious





this same thing happened to me sorta


a girl broke up with after going out for a year


we just ignored each other for the longest time not being freinds or anything


then a few weeks later after the break up she trys to ask if we want to be friends of cousrse i blow her off and we just ingnore each other for months


now after a while of gettin over the relationship i relazied i didnt want it to end that badly so i ended up callin her up and talkin to her and we were freinds for a while but just recenctly it just stopped we stopped talkin to each other idk it was weird





well for your story try to start with a closure for your break up see if hell listen to what you have to sayDon't you hate it when?
Sometimes time is the best thing. Let it go for a while. Once he pulls his head out of the drugs you will most likely get your closure.