Any advice?

How do you recover from a horrible breakup of someone being person you loved dearly then realizing they were categorized as a sociopath? A person who mirrored what you wanted until they found out the lies were uncovered. The last week of our relationship was horrible emotional abuse and betrayal. I am seeing a therapist for PTSD and I have prayed so much. Its been 4 months what else can I do. I dont want him back but the pain constantly stays with me. He brought his drug induced GF to my job to rub her in my face. The person I knew never existed. I know he is nothing now but to know he didnt care enough to even break up. He laughed and said he was a shark in the water, everyone served a purpose to him.Any advice?
The way I see it, people like that can't help themselves, completely. I think they don't know how to be real, or they think their life isn't good enough to interest someone like you, so they make things up. Then when it all comes crashing down, they do hurtful things to make it look like they weren't hurt at all, when in reality, it's a crushing blow, that confirms, in their own minds, just how bad and unlovable they are. And the circle continues...





Don't stress yourself over this. Dude needs help, and unless you got a degree, you can't do it.Any advice?
Beth, you need to refocus on the things that are important to you. He took advantage of your feelings and now it is time to stop being the victim and learn from that experience.





I know you were fine before you meet this jerk, so what is wrong with being that way after him. You are the same person. Good luck.
So sorry to hear this, I understand the way you feel, my first girlfriend was like this I think but you just need time and some good friends and family to help you get through this.


God Bless you for praying pray harder and fast for a good result. Also try creating a prayer circle and involve him in it meaning pray for him and his sociopathic ways this might help you even more but you come first.
This man is trying to hurt you and you are letting him, giving him your energy will only drain you! It's time to find your inner strength and be strong. You have something he never will your mind and your serenity. It hurts but the more you do not allow yourself to think of him or the past ands what he has done the easier it will be. He couldn't care dear he is trapped under a sea of misery that he has brought onto himself. Just be thankful that you're free of him and can live and breath without his cahos. God has a plan for you and when he is no longer an issue in your life opportunities will open.
ouch !! you know there are female sharks too.


sorry you are having to go thru this. just give it time, give yourself time and continue with the theropy. good luck
Wake up each morning and count your blessings that you are free from this person. Keep telling yourself how special you are and what you have to offer. It will take some time but the pain will go away. You were honest and let your heart be vulnerable to someone who was just a player. You deserve better and will find better but first you have to make you better.





Good luck!
be glad that you're no longer with him and feel bad for his new gf. he's crazy as hell! seriously be glad you don't have to deal with it. best wishes
A shark in the water - everyone serves a purpose - uhmm. What a horrible human being - reminds me of an ex. Same attitude. Just remember - you are a good and loving person. You did nothing wrong - you just met the wrong guy. You do not deserve a man like this and it hurts but time will heal you. It really will. Thank God you didn't waste anymore time. Each day you will feel a little better. When you think of him - change your thoughts. It takes a long time to get over a deception like this -but you will. Stay strong - guys like him know just how to manipulate. Good luck to you honey.