How should i get my x boyfriend back?

Me and my boyfriend broke up a while ago, i called him yesterday to say happy birthday and he said i could call out next week to see him which i am surpised about because i thought he would say no. I thought when you breakup with someone you never see them again or stay in touch. So why does he want to be friends with me and why would he agree to see me and still hang out? Could he still have feelings for me and is there any way i can get back with him by being his friend? is there anyone out there who has been in this same position as me if so i would love to hear you story, i am so heartbroken over what has happened but i am happy now that we are friends, is it a second chance maybe?How should i get my x boyfriend back?
OMG get over him. U silly child !!!!!How should i get my x boyfriend back?
MEN chase WOMEN. Keep it that way! Not the other way around. He wants a week because most men need their time alone to analyse situations like these...or simply get their minds off things(for all you know, he's out having fun with his buddies...boy's night out, commitment free!). So why torment yourself thinking of the ';coulda would'ves';! Spend time with family and friends doing things you enjoy. Sleep well and eat well. Have him contact you and make the effort to see you. In a week's time, you'll be looking better than ever! Take it slow and have him begging for you! Keep the ball on your side of the fence...that way, you can take your time weighing the pros and cons of this relationship.





Write his positive traits then his negative traits on a piece of paper. See which one has more!
I've said it before and I'll say it again, 'exes belong in the past, leave them there.'





Don't look back, baby doll, look forward.
My advice is to move on!


relationships do not work a second time round


theres a saying


';dont try and mend a broken mirror you will only hurt yourself more by trying';
Let it go, why next week? why not now? get yourself someone who wants you now gal.
So why were you ringing to wish him happy birthday if you thought that exes didn't stay in touch. Do you think he' s being generous giving you permission to see him next week or do you think he just wants you for sex. I think you are reading the signals wrong.
Hi.sorry but I think you are reading too much into it.You phoned him has he made any move to contact you.Like I said sorry however be very carefull has you might be in for another fall.I sincerely hope things work out for you.Good Luck
so hes managed to squash u into his schedule for next week and already he has u all excited. only he had to wait for u to contact him b4 he decided to want to meet up. obviously u r not over him and u hope that the feeling is mutual but honey i don't think that's the case. there are some reason he could have asked u to meet up


1-maybe he was just being civil and polite


2-maybe he really wants to be friends


3-maybe hes just keeping hes options open


4-maybe he really does want to get back 2gether


as u would have noticed all these r maybes nothing is certain.


personally i would say get over him. i know people get back 2gether after a break u but he doesn seem to have made that much of an effort to get u back or has he? i dunno just speaking from the way i handle things. i hope u get the clarity u need. x
Don't look back !!!! keep it str8
I found myself in this position once and it turned out he was only really interested in the occasional bed room action and the lets be cool about things and see how it goes.


I saw straight through him and realised what his game was,then he got the boot.


He may have genuine feelings for you,but just be on your guard incase its the one thing only he's interested in.
hon, all you can do is ask. ive been there. im married and i stay in touch with a few of the guys that i have dated, as well as expressed past feelings. also just make sure this person is worth the 'back-tracking', because maybe it is better for you to go forward without this person. i know sometimes we get lonely and its easier to go back than to find a new person.





however, i can understand if you just need closure. closure may not always have the result/response you want, but now you know. i think it gives you a healthy opportunity to move on, continue to pursue this person.





just ask! you'll never know until you just ask. good luck!
Honey you got to think WHY did you two break up?


Would you want to get serious with him again and maybe you are hoping you both will spend the rest of your lives together? If not then maybe you should not bother but if you are hoping for a future with him go!
definitely.


the fact that he wants to see you again means that he misses you.. even if it may not be as a girlfriend for the moment.. it is still important.


when meeting up with him show him all the qualities he fell in love with you for in the first place and everything should work like a charm... but dont be too agressive.. things like this take time. eventually you will have to ask him if he is interested in rekindling your lost love.
Oh coooooll..


give it another chance if u guys broke up over some silly stuff, if u want him back loook hotterrrr.. wear something really niceee and look ur best, act classy ,, show him what he's missing out ;)...
You shouldn't try to get your ex back . That's why he is called and EX. If he wanted you back he would let you know. Talk is sweet but doesn't taste sweet. He wants to be friends. Dint hop all over him. You make yourself look desperate. He will think that you had nobody else but him since y'all broke up. Then you will fill awkward with him just being your friend.
He is horny. Every now and then a guy wants to hook up with his ex. But it is rare that you will get back together. Think about the reasons you broke up. Let go!
there could be a second chance but you have to make sure your problems are fixed..like why you broke up in the first place. and it should really be what you want.
I am afraid the more cynical of us are closer to the truth.


He is on the look out for somebody else but is keeping in touch with you as a fall back and it's also good for his ego to have you in close contact - this should boost his attention from other females.


Move on and be confident that there is a better guy out there but he will only appear when you least expect it so stop trying so hard.
hes an ex for a reason maybe u shouldnt b goin back there
I know how you are feeling and I think you should just let him go. I know it is hard, but some thimes it is for the best! Trust Me, It will all work out in the end!