Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 6 months and she just ended it today. She said things got boring and that she was sorry and all that crap. And right now im mad more than anything but i know im going to be really down about this in about an hour and i just wanted to know some ways yall cope with a serious breakup.. Please dont answer with Hooking up with someone else, that really doesnt help me.How to get over a longterm relationship breakup?
Give yourself time and patience. Lots of time and patience.
Lose some contact with her. It will help you in the long run. Delete her texts and get rid of photos of stuff that you might have. Delete her off your facebook friends list, and delete her number. It's makes it much easier for you.
Spending time with your friends helps as well. Throw yourself into hobbies and distract yourself with sport and music - improve in those areas.
Perhaps also talking about the situation to a girl friend or someone? They'll be able to help you out.
And also believing deep down that you can get over her. Because honestly, although all hope seems lost right now, life will bring you back something even better soon.
Wishing you well for 2010.How to get over a longterm relationship breakup?
Yeah, really just let things pass. Your going to feel down sometime but the best ways to help are spend some time with your friends or family. If your artsy draw paint or write, i prefer to play music hen im down or mad. And one important thing most people forget is its ok to cry, it helps mentally at least. Just because your a guy doesnt mean you cant cry.
Well not necessarily hook up with somebody else, just date somebody else. Or go on vacation with your friends. Vegas anyone?
just 6 months is not a long term relationship..you should overcome by this situation as soon as possible...try to forget her...just tell your self she wasnt perfect for you or she wasnt of your type...
there are many girls out there...all the best!!!!
Get busy, I used to get very physically active, like I was cycling all the time. With an MP3 and some good music, it made my mind think about something else than her.
Get some new hobbies...
everyone deals with a breakup there own way dont go get all depressed cause honestly she isnt and theres plenty and I MEAN PLENTY of other people out there!! PICK ONE!!!
time dear sir.
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