In breakup hell can someone help?

ok me and my boyfriend broke up a little over amonth ago. i am still beat up about it..we werent getting along he was acting like a **** and we both pretty much knew it was dunzo. in the back ground he had another chick on the go, and then he preceded to date her. he is still with her and has been sleeping wit her and everything. i feel so shitty because i think everything is going perfect with her that wasnt with me...things were ****** up in the end with me and him , cuz he was so scared of a commitment. then he went and said hes with this new girl, donno if he really is. anyways during the time i was with him, he was hitting on his ex, and on my coworker who he claimed to be just friends with, that got really hostile towards me when she found out we slept together thinking she had a chance with him. so anyhow..hes still with this new girl,( i dontk now with how many others) but i know hes banging her. i just cant even fathom how guys can move on so fast? d o u think it was to conceal his pain?or that hes super into her, or that he just knew it wouldnt work with me but he did like me. what happened? i cant move on and constantly htink of him. i even sent him an email saying i still love him. bleck....he didnt respond.In breakup hell can someone help?
That sucks! As far as your beating yourself up about this new woman, just know that there is one word for her- REBOUND. And this is classic rebound, they look ';perfect'; etc. These rarely last and he WILL be coming back to you, mark my words. You will drive yourself crazy thinking like this, tho, so try to get busy and either call friends or keep writing questions, we'll support you. AND! Know that his new ';friend'; is a ';fling.';In breakup hell can someone help?
Hi Krista,


This Guy Is A Player..He's only out for SEX and what ever else he can get..You deserve Better,cry or yell and get this Loser out of your system..Move on there are nicers Guys out there,that will treat you with respect.. Don't email this Creep anymore,it just gets him off and that's all..


Your Friend,


poppy1
stop writing him. he's a jerk and doesnt care about you anymore. im sorry. i know its harsh, but thats just some guys. just try and find another guy. dont dwell on it. he obviously wasnt that good to you when you were together. so just try and get over him....





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write and write and write about it.


maybe even write a song, that helped me
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Just cry and talk to someone that will listen to you no matter how many times you repeat the story. It will help
When, its over, its over..forget picking up pieces.......move on and dont look back.
cry your heart out, and move on.
well weather or not he doest like you or not he is with someone else. and he dint answer your e-mail. so the best thing is just 2 move on. maybe that is what he wants for u to beg him. show him that you can be okay without him. don't be crying over a guy because they are probably not worth it. look at him with his girlfriend and you crying. move on would be my advice.
Well Krista, you really need a guy who will respect you and who will love you the way that you love him, i didn't even have to read the whole paragraph you wrote and i knew what you where going through. Krista you are a nice girl and you need a guy who will love and respect you no matter what happens and who feels the same way you do. You really shouldn't love man who doesn't love you back. What is the point on having a relationship if it is not going anywhere?
I am sure you do love him and find it hard to move on, but to be honest I don't believe he's even worth your time now if he's doing other chicks. I think the main thing that's bothering you is that he doesn't give you explanations of why he acts the way he does, this is enough to drive many people crazy. You're letting it get to your head which is easy to do, but you have to try and find something new and interesting. I also find that talking about my problems helps put them out in the open and makes them heal a bit faster. The simple act of you putting your problem on Yahoo! answers is a good step towards feeling better about it. You're a strong person, you can do it. You don't need him.
TRUST ME......the same thing will happen to her ...that happened to you.........








relationships are all the same just different types of ppl......he is a cheater ...so no matter who he is with he cheats........and why do you even care about this guy........just by reading his track record(your paragraph).....he just wants some of that good ole' Vagina ......thats it honestly......and if its good he will stick around with the chick until he wants more........VAGINA





you need to understand...its all a game we play....if u learn to play u wont get hurt











oh an another thing...he will come back trust me.......but not because he misses you ....but because he wants your VAGINA.........when he calls text or emails...theres one thing on his mind....YOUR VAGINA......so ask urself..';will i let him use me for sloppy sex? or will i realize Vagina is a gracious gift ...a temple to my body which gives me the keys to get great men and do great things?';
He sound like an asshole !!!


I know you still have fellings for him but its not worth it


Get cute and go out with one of your guy friends or go on a date with that guy whos been interested in you that you said no to cuz u were with ur shitty X every body has that person they wanted to holla at but couldnt at the time it may even be one of his cute friends, OH WEll u know wut I'm talkin about ;)


I'm not sayin jump into bed just to get back at him Cuz Trust me that doesnt really help. But definately holla at some body you ll b feelin better soon.
im really sorry for what happen. but to do urself a favor and dont hurt urself anymore, remember there no pain that will last 1000 days and no body dat will handle it, dont feel bad! when a guy moves on or a girl its because they already found something new, just like this ur drivin an 1997 honda and ur parents give u a 2010 honda which one would u pick u drove the 1997 honda u already put miles on it! u want the new honda! whats gonna happen is this dont worry what he did to u hes gonna do it to her! what u need to do is to trow everything away! delete him from ur phone its hard but if u cant do it make ur friend a family memeber to do it.. if hes ****** her good for him hes an asshole, dat shows u how hes scare to be alone! dat he needs to be in a relationship! dont worry its gonna be more harder for him when a girl lives him, u need to put ur head up walk straight and ask this question


**** this guy im better then him and ill find something better, take sometime to heal, but if u wanna feel better! trow things at he gave u aand delete him from emails and stuff! dats step one! dont cry for him save those tears for someone dat is worth it! its hard i know! in a few months think about me! and ull ask ur self this question! what was i thinkin!
It could be he's just a player. I'm not a therapist or anything so i really don't know, but he doesn't sound like a very secure person. And yes, guys do move fast. Outgoing guys typically flirt with everyone we find attractive, regardless of our relationship status. Classy guys keep these ';prospects'; are arms length, and don't rush into something right after something else collapses. But some do.


And btw, things are probably not going perfect with her anyway, you just can't see that at the moment. Hope this helps some!