I hate being just ';the friend';?

Ok. So theres this one guy. He has a girlfriend but she isn't treating him right. He to nice to ever breakup with someone. And we texted for like 5 hours i must have recieved 100 texts. he poured out his heart to me and how she was being mean and how his family life isn't going great. I want him to like me SOOOOO bad. And when we texted he said all this stuff like i realy appreciate you being there for me, no one has ever done this for me before, thanks for being such a wonderful friend. ( i made him cookies cause he was really sad one day). How do i get outof being just that ';friend'. to being the girlfriend??





help. i really like him, and i want him to like me to.I hate being just ';the friend';?
gosh chick, that always seems like the problem for me back then..haha





well for my advice, i suggest to not rite away tell him your feellings. YOU have to take time. Remember-take time. It may be awhile but once the magic has worked at the end, then the time was worth it. If you tell him your feelings it mite not be the rite time since his gf bout to be ex gf issues, AND may ruin the friendship between you and him. Tell him after hes a cheerful from the breakup or wheneve you feel that in your heart-it will tell you when the time is rite! LOL





I say you keep being friends with him til now and do whatever you can to support him.


make him smile. make him laugh. make him wanting more by talking to him everyday, call him to say hi, and make him feel comfortable..Flirt with him in a easy way but not like too emotional and always look deeply into his eyes when you are having a convesation with him..yadda mean?? lol





[even if he didn't feel that spark you have felt for him, its better than being his friend-girl than being his nothing..]





and hope everything works out for you :]I hate being just ';the friend';?
im trying to figure out that same exact thing.


what i would say is to take it slow, show some interest/subtle flirting, but no more. let him make the first move. it seems that he really trusts you, and sees you as a great friend, since he really needs someone. but wait until he actually breaks up with his gf before you try anything.


dont say anything to him unless you positively know that he likes you back, because that could ruin ur friendship.


i know from experience...
Well, first of all, I think you should tell him how you feel about him. You need to take a chance. And if he still doesn't see what a wonderful girl you are, then he must be blind because I can see that you are a very caring person.
keep doing what you are doing.if he could open up to you that way ,more than likely its more than you think.he trust you and obviously likes you.Good luck!
Wow... If someone's making cookies for me already, it should have definitely progressed to a relationship. Maybe take a hint? He doesn't appreciate you THAT much. Otherwise just tell him to dump the girlfriend and HE'LL take a hint which would be real obvious as to whether he likes you or not relationship-wise. Guys generally don't reject unless they're tip-top.
Hmm.. Tell him you want to be more than just a friend and have a relationship.