How can someone breakup with you by disappearing on you!?

Boyfriend of 4 years has totally become distant within 2 months,he doesn't call,no texts! Doesn't answer when I call...Friday he was meant to see me but ignored me thursday and Friday but he didn't call first to explain..I called and he admit to ignoring me,saying he is scared of my reactions?!


Saying he has no money,has to pay for other things,saying he's stressed?!


But why doesn't he tell me he can't see me instead of ignoring me!


Yeah he made no effort to call Saturday Sunday or Monday!


He had seen me only twice in 3 months...I have been understanding as he didn't have a job but then he got one for a month...I know he's stressed about not being able to find a job but why ignore me for so long! He's ignoring me more n more!


I think he's just dumped me but is too much of a coward to admit it!


4 year relationship it's hard to move on :(How can someone breakup with you by disappearing on you!?
Because that's how cowards/***holes break it off. I hope someone does the same to him one day.





Don't contact him, whatever you do. It will only feed his ego AND push him away further. During this ';no contact period,'; I want you to read three books. 1. The Rules 2. Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus (especially for the chapter entitled ';men are like rubber bands,'; and 3. He's Just not that into You.





All of your answers are in there. If you do feel the urge to contact him, at least promise that you won't do so until you read those books. :)