How do you get over a breakup with someone that you have liked for a long time?

I went out with this guy and I have liked him for awhile and he liked me for awhile and we broke up. I blame myself for the breakup even though some people that I know keep on telling me that it is their fault. He said that he did not want to go out anymore and that he only wanted to be friends wiht me after he found out that it was only a dare. I keep on thinking about him and that it is all my fault that we broke up but the people that I know tells me that it is their fault that we broke up. I dont know wut to do. Does anyone have any advice that will help me?How do you get over a breakup with someone that you have liked for a long time?
Leave it to cool down for a while, get his trust back, them speak to him about how you feel. If you think about him all the time, either you still want him, or just need to get something off your chest.How do you get over a breakup with someone that you have liked for a long time?
Well first of all how can you build something out of nothing? You actually had nothing with this guy, he said it was a dare like you were cheap or something and he had to see if you were. So don't be depressed over something like this because there never was anything there to get depressed about. It was an immature act on someones part that is all. And someday you will actually have a real relationship but it does not start out this way.