Monday, August 9, 2010

How do you know if you truly need to breakup with someone?

I have a boyfriend who I love very much, and we're still going to school,but now it's summer%26amp; he hasn't made very much effort to see me, so the only time we communicate with each other is over the phone,%26amp; lately he seems distant,%26amp;doesn't call as much as he usually does.And we've only been out of school for 2%26amp;1/2 weeks so I don't know if I'm asking for 2 much 2 soon or not....How do you know if you truly need to breakup with someone?
I would have a conversation about your feelings and his about your relationship. Communication is key since none of us are mind readers. The only way to know someones intent is to discuss it with them.How do you know if you truly need to breakup with someone?
i would say the best thing to do is to get together in person and talk to each other. go out to dinner or something and hang out. if after seeing him again in person, you're still feeling this disconnect, explore it with him, tell him you feel like he's being distant. see if you can come to some sort of conclusion. perhaps work out seeing each other on the weekends. if you want to stay together, try to figure out what you both need out of the relationship and compromise. perhaps he just hasn't realized that he's being distant. but if you guys cant work it out, if you feel like you are growing at different paces (which happens quite often in relationships) perhaps it is time to consider moving on.
if you two have weird silence moments


clearly that means that your love isn't a strong one.


if you guys end up marrying you guys might cheat or other things


it seems like he isn't interested in you anymore.


your love was like a crush a love that is good for a short time now it is getting crushed
He's your boyfriend - he's supposed to want to hang out with you. Maybe you should find a guy who wants to hang out and do fun things together - it's summer!

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