Monday, August 9, 2010

How to overcome sudden breakup with someone, when they used to fill a great part of our life?

How can I train myself to live without his presence?How to overcome sudden breakup with someone, when they used to fill a great part of our life?
Take a deep breath and just plow ahead.





Use this time as a chance to get to know yourself. Never let your life be ruled by someone else - even when your married you still need to be individuals.





I've been married for 20 years and whilst my hubby and I do a lot together there is a heap of stuff that we do separately - different friends, interests etc. Which is probably why we have lasted for twenty years when most of the people we know that got married around the same time have long since gone their separate ways.





So I guess the short answer is - don't let someone FILL your life, let them SHARE it instead.How to overcome sudden breakup with someone, when they used to fill a great part of our life?
Find someone else. There are plenty of other guys around. Next time don't invest so much of yourself in them. I don't know if you know it but we in the U.S. have over a 50% divorce rate. At least you are not going through this. Take it from someone who has had plenty of breakups. Its really not as big a deal as it seems to you now. To be honest after about a year I really have to think to even remember their names. About a year ago I ran into a girl who dumped me over 12 years ago. We had a nice chat. Then we went our separate ways. We haven't talked or seen each other since. In a little time you will feel much better too. Best of Luck to you Bob
Get up in the morning and go for a walk.


Change your routine and it will change your thinking.


Do something different.


Learn to play racquetball, tennis.


Learn a video game.


Take a language class.


Take a cooking class.


You are the only one that can change your train of thought making you experience the loss even more.
Well time of course heals all wounds. But until that time comes, just remember if its meant to be, it will work itself out. Thats how I got over my ex. I prayed and asked for strength also. It can be done. So enjoy your time as a single woman. If everyone just realized that life is short, we wouldnt get so wrapped up with things like this! Just have fun!
try to make it right if they mean that much to you.... you have to tell them and if they dont agree then just keep their memories and move on even if its hard....when you started the relationship no one promised you a happy ending but anyone could of told you it was a gamble of luck
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Life is complicated,


when those memories give you sorrow and you use to cry then close the (FILE)


just look over the world.


there are million reasons to (SMILE).


your problem you can share with me.
don't try to hide some feelings that are hard to keep, just feel it, even if it hurts, don't fight against feelings this are like horse just try to domesticate them
Time.

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