Ladies...if you had a real bad breakup with someone and the last conversation ya'll had was REALLY bad...?

so bad that harsh words were exchanged...but he still loved and cared for you even after a month. Would you want the man to make the first move and try to work things out and how long do you think is a good time for him too wait before he tried to contact you in any way? I am in this predicament and I want to send her a card, I guess I am still just a lil skiddish about it thats all. What should I do?Ladies...if you had a real bad breakup with someone and the last conversation ya'll had was REALLY bad...?
Go ahead and do it. We are emotional beings and compassionate (on the whole) You have nothing to lose by making a non invasive gesture like sending a card. If you receive no response, then you have your answer. If you do, then great. Just make sure the card is sweet and thoughtful and not just Baby I miss you I want you back. More like I saw or went to (place or thing that was key in your relationship) and it made me think of you. I wanted to write and apologize things ended so harshly and wanted to let you know you were still in my thoughts. I'd love to hear from you again : type thing


Something that puts the ball in her court.


Good luckLadies...if you had a real bad breakup with someone and the last conversation ya'll had was REALLY bad...?
a card? only if the cards comes with about 4 dozens long stem roses. then a hand written long letter delivered by the postman telling me how sorry you are, how wrong you was, how now you see that no one could ever replace me, how you will spend the rest of your life making up for all the horrible words you said, how you know you will never deserve me yet cant live with out me. you would have to eat so much crow that you now have wing where you use to have arms. then and only then i might think about forgiving you.oh yea a diamond bracelet would not hurt either.