My ex girlfriend and i broke up a few days ago. i still love her. do i go back to her?

well basically my girlfriend and i dated for close to four months and i have never experienced the kind of comfort before that i felt with her. we were together every second of every day. we fought at least once a day over stupid things because we're both stubborn but we always got over it. she drinks and that bothers me a lot but she did her best to stop while we were dating. when we broke up she got trashed. i still love her and she still loves me. i want to get back with her because i miss all the amazing times we had together and all i can think about is how i dreamed of us staying together forever. i know that's unrealistic but it seems hard not to think of all the good times and ignore the lousy. another part of my problem is that there is a girl that i like who likes me as well. we liked eachother in the past before i dated my girlfriend. i'm not sure if i really do like her again or if i'm just comforted by her presence because of my breakup. someone please help me.My ex girlfriend and i broke up a few days ago. i still love her. do i go back to her?
Go back to her.


If you KNOW that she still loves you, or that she loved you at all, go back to her. There is no way if she had onced loved you that she wouldn't anymore. Impossible to forget love that quick.





I can see you love her, and when i read this I just about cried. Not because I'm drippy or anything like that, but because me and my boyfriend are the same way.


We started off this way and we're still this way and its been past 2 years into our relationship.





This kind of relationship is hard to deal with. I actually believe more in Zodiac signs now, than I ever have because they describe me and him perfectly. Look it up sometime.


I'm a Leo and he is a Gemini.


We are both stubborn as hell and we Do fight, just like you two, EVERYDAY over the stupidest little things. It bothers him more than me that we fight so much.


But if yuo both end up getting over it by the next day you guys shoudl be fine.


Make sacrifices for each other, learn to kind of feel how the other one must feel because of the stupid fight. try to see things from both ends. You guys will come out okay in a while.


But for you two to work it is going to take tons of commitment and tons of patience.


If you need to talk to me more just send me a message, I'll probably be on ALL day.


toodles and i hope i helped.My ex girlfriend and i broke up a few days ago. i still love her. do i go back to her?
your on the rebound so you might not really like that other girl.
Your ex is probably still drinking.
dogg, breaking up is hard to do. that is common knowledge. in fact, folks write songs and movies and books about the subject it is such a part of the human experience.





here is what i can tell you, and these are facts:





1. it will get better.


2. you will get over it.


3. it sucks.
ok being together for four months and being together allllll the time can be a problem.





when i experience that i get bored fast.





and if its only four months and you fight everyday then that shows you that your together too much. you need breaks.





y'all need to take a break from each other and then in 2 weeks or a month if you both still want to take another shot at it then do so.











basically.


you were both attached way to early.





space is what y'all need.
Man I was in a situation like you were. I dont envy you. But go for the one you love. The other girl is just a rebound, and since you are thinking of your ';Ex'; its worth to give another try. Thats if she hasent found anyone else.





And how much does she drink? If its a few drinks during the week then whats the problem? But If she drinks everyday Morning, noon, and night then she needs help. If you are drinking, but you are telling her she can't then you are being odd.
well, if you broke up with her she most likely still likes you even if all of her girlfriends tell you she hates you, i have done tht and now the guy tht recently broke up w/ knows i still like him and he is starting to like me again! but if she broke up with you, shes moved on---so if you broke up with her go for it and she what the outcome is it will most likely be good if you broke up with her--- and if you really like her make sure you say tht so she doesnt think tht you are just messing around and tell her tht you made the biggest mistake ever and you want to make up for hurting her because you really do care for her, if she says no then ask her if she will ever like you again and if there might be another chance for you two again!
dont leave the one u love for the one u like


cuz the one u like may leave u for the one they love
i wouldn't go back to her, when my girlfriend broke up with me for a month or so i was so tempted to ask her to get back together, i finally did and she said ';yes';, and like after 2 days of being back together i realized that i didn't want to get back together. she was mad at me for breaking up with her.





trust me you will get over it.
spend some time together ( you and your ex whom you love)


without all the kissing , holding each other, etc.


try going on dates kinda like get to know each other all over again.


Tell her why you don't like her drinking. Ask her why she drinks? is it because she is unhappy or what? Ask her what she doesn't like about you.....and see if you can look past each others flaws


As for the other girl...don't leave someone whom you love for someone whom you like.





Listen to your heart.....it knows what you want better than your head.