How do I breakup with someone that I love?

Me and my boyfriend are 200 miles away and even though I c him every 2 weeks its really hard. He's in the military and won't be back home until 2011. He's a really great guy but i dont kno if i'll be able to be with him for long cuz it hurts to c him 4 only 2 days then he's gone again. What should I tell him he wants 2 get married and everything I just don't know how to break the news to him. I do love him and I thnk we'll be better off as friends its creepy how much we have in common but I cant dont want to lead him on any longer but I also don't wanna do it over the phone because the next time I see him will be a month from now I think its rude to it that way. PLEASE HELP thank youHow do I breakup with someone that I love?
When you see him just talk to him about it. Tell him everything. Tell him you love him but you can't stand to be away from him all the time and you don't know if you can wait that long. Just have an open conversation about it all and see what he says too. Maybe he feels the same way? How do I breakup with someone that I love?
you're probably the only thing keeping him going over there. i think he'll be crushed if you break up with him. if you really loved him like you say you do you would be able to wait for him.
Tell him over the phone. Tell him by in a month, and be strong, for him.
dont? love isnt always perfect, u gotta work at it. the dude prolly get heartbroken and end up dieing in war or something cuz of wat happend. i get ur feelings but think of his as well
There is no 'polite' way to break up with anyone, especially a guy who's putting himself in a great deal of danger serving his country, earning a living, and learning a trade or career. He's planning for the future, protecting the USA's interests abroad, and representing his country in a way you couldn't understand unless you've done it yourself. He gets homesick, he misses everything that is happening with his family at home, and he still is proud to do what he's doing for his country, himself, and you.





Do whatever you think is best for you since no matter how you do it, you'll look like an a$s. It's not right to string him along, but neither is it right to stay with him if you're not feeling it, or worse yet, if you're likely to cheat on him.





Those of us who have served in the military have all either been the recipient of or known someone who has recieved a 'dear John'; letter. You won't be the first, the last, or the most tragic. Just do what you gotta do and cut this patriotic, hard working, hero loose so he can find someone who will appreciate him.





He'll recover. You couldn't possibly be all that.