How to breakup with someone with sensitivity?

I have been with my boyfriend for about 6 months. He's ga great guy, no chaeting or anything.


But I honestly don't need a boyfriend right now, and I really don't have feelings for and JUST WANT TO BE FRIENDS.


How do i dotht without sounding mean?How to breakup with someone with sensitivity?
1. Don't do it out of the blue. You need to (over a few weeks) start dropping hints that things aren't quite right. Maybe pick a couple of fights. If he thinks everything is fine AND then you suddenly dump him, he will be both shocked and think you are a *****.





2. When the time comes, give him a ';heads up';. Tell him in advance that you need to talk about something serious to do with your relationship and plan a time to speak.





3. Preferably do it in private and on neutral territory. If it is at your place, you have no control over when he leaves and he'll feel back walking out for the 'last time'. If it is at his place, the act of you 'leaving' will feel bad.





4. Emphasis all his great qualities.





5. Try to act like you are upset about it too and it is hurting you. Don't be all cool and calm.





6. DO NOT tell him you don't have feelings for him. Tell him he is great but that you don't feel that the timing is right.





7. DO NOT say any of the following:


a) let's just be friends;


b) it's not you it's me;


c) you are too good for me.


These are cliched rubbish statements that will bug him for ever.





Good luck.How to breakup with someone with sensitivity?
As far i can see you still want to be friends.





I believe you should tell him the truth,how you feel about a relationship right now, and that you want to be his friend no matter what. I believe he will understand, you still have a chance that he feels the same about you...





As i always say: The right person on the wrong time, is not the right person.
If a Man lost a lady because she wants to move on...he should understand that very clear unless he is a baby.





I would tell you sure you can move on, but lets keep in touch if you like my giant anaconda.
Stop what you are thinking right now.





Don't try to figure it out. Just say it straight.





I've been dumped my fair share of times, and I've heard just about every excuse in the book. If you try and figure out a way to make it sound nicer, it's just gonna do more damage. We can see right through those. The best, and only, way to say it is just to say it. Don't sugar-coat it for us. Say it like it is.
Just tell him, you need a break because something is not right about you in this relationship. Tell him you will keep in contact but right now, you need some space with yourself. Then you can take things slow, see other less, and you will call him if you are ok. Let him know that he is a great guy, and you have never met someone like him.
Say look your a great guy and all but you BORE me I want a bad boy who will feel me up in the back of his 1999 Camry and take me to Waffle house and share a meal at 4 a.m. and then sneak back into my room and we talk about who houses our next study and then popping in our mints and making out and I dont think you could do that for me so maybe its best we stay friends and maybe just maybe if you dont cry I will let you feel my boob okay? yah thats what I would say
no real soft way of doing the deed, just be honest, no need to excuse the way you feel. if the interest is not there dont drag it out. good luck.
';It's just not working out for me.';
There is no real easy way to let someone down.





Tell him you need some space and time to think about your relationship. Tell him to even give you a week.





If you miss him too much, then you didn't really lose him. But there is always the possibility of him never taking you back again-- so CHOOSE WISELY!





Otherwise, just say you need to cut it off, and that you still wish to be friends [that hardly ever happens, though].





Best of luck.
say ..you really just want a f*ck buddy. and not a boyfriend he might get the hint. to where you want to f*ck the whole town.
he sounds like a wonderful guy and while i can't tell you what to do or feel, i think you're making a big mistake. you're not ready for a relationship cos you're too busy, too young or having too much fun? just curious....





i hope that when you do decide you're ready for a relationship you'll meet someone as nice as he is, infact i hope you do, otherwise you'll be regreting leaving him for a long, long time.





back to your question, there's no way of telling him without hurting him, especially as you say he hasn't done anything wrong. tell him how you feel and let him know your decision has nothing to do with him. but i must warn you....he might not want to be friends with you at first, but he'll come arround.
just tell him you aren't interested...





you are going to upset him ANYWAY!!!
just tell him you need your own time and space to think about some things, and that your not sure of how you feel about being with him anymore, just give it to him straight im sure he can handle it, good luck
';JUST WANT TO BE FRIENDS.';





No guy EVER wants to here these words, and no matter what, he's gonna think he did something wrong. So you are just gonna have to do what you gotta do :p