How is the right way to breakup with someone?

I know from experience that every break-up is different. I don't know if there is a best or right one. You just do the best you can without trying to hurt them anymore than you are going too. Go by what you know about them. Always do it some place where you wont get interrupted unless you think he will become violent. If that's the case then make sure you wil be safe by doing it where someone will hear you if you call out for help. Good-luck with this, it really sucks.Remember not to be cruel. Think about how you would feel if it was the other way around.How is the right way to breakup with someone?
Face to face, if you can. If not, write a nice note and send it. Don't run them down. Just tell them what it is about them that doesn't fit with your expectations. Try to leave them with their self-respect. Tell them you will always remember the good times, and hope you can be friends some day.How is the right way to breakup with someone?
Well u don't power bomb them.hahaha.You are just very nice and say I'm sorry but this isn't working out for me.I hope you find someone that can love you the way you deserve to be loved.Good luck
';It's not you, it's me';
aaahhh.... breaking up..... its like constipation...... it feels really hard to squeeze out the poop, but once its out u can relax and take a deep breath
i wish i knew :(


i'm in the same boat
make out with your new significant other infront of the old one....
first , you have to ask yourself is can i fix this relationship. if not, i think it is better to be honest with him. i hate the term, ( i just need some time)
Being short sweet and to the point. And don't ask to be friends. Once they get over the hurt (if they get over it) and they want to be friends they'll come to you. Tell them the truth. It might hurt but that's the best way. And leave them alone afterwords.
just tell him that you just want to be alone right now,.......or if not just tell him that its not him its you....i think that better then anything
The fact that you're thinking this speaks to something interesting in your mindset. Either you are very considerate, or you're a perfectionist. Or what, I wonder.





Anyway, I think this is interesting. Maybe it depends on who it is you're breaking up from. The idea occurs to me that if this person is likely to become dangerous, you want a third, ';safety'; person very near, maybe even within arms reach. Definitely, you want them to have a cell phone. Possibly you want two people, one who is a ';guard,'; and another to call for backup if necessary.





If you are trying to be considerate of the other, you may want to be in a familiar, comfortable place, somewhere you both feel comfortable in, maybe somewhere the other person can get either a drink or a cup of his/her favourite coffee or tea.





Thanks for bringing this up. I'll put this thread on my watch list.
fix them up with someone.





or turn into a real b**ch, so that they stay far far away from you.
take them to a coffeee shop and tell them .





the coffe shop helps so they don't make a scene or start yelling at you ....





and think about what your going to say they usually see it coming because your acting differently around him even if you don't notice your doing it...





good luck
you should say '; i think our relationship is not the way it should be, i dont feel really comfortable this way,so this is why i want to break up with you,i'm really sorry !





i guess that should be .. if you want change some words.





luck.. your friend Paola





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it !!
to tell them exactly how you feel.
Say: Good Bye!


Good Luck!


God Bless!


In person if possible, by phone if possible, or by email if all else fails. Then distance yourself and move-on.


It'll hurt you both of you just as much whether you are breaking a marriage or just a relationship. No difference in the pain, just the assets and money you split in marriage.
be honest with them.


almost always, the hardest thing is the same as the right thing. unfortunately for the both of you, you just have to tell them how you feel.





good luck!
its over boo hoo
Be honest! But don't be hurtful.
sit down and have a talk with them face to face. speak the truth, ask yourself this question - why am i breaking up with this guy? this is something he needs to know, he deserves to know. then its your decision if you want to continue to be friends with him. if you do, tell him so and be aware that he might not accept the friendship at first but overtime you guys will probably become friends again.
with honesty to you and them. Communication is always the key with the knowledge that you are going to do this for both of you and you are going to stand strong in your decision making even if the other part cannot handle it and go off the deep end.
Always face to face, never over this phone or AIM crap.
Tell them it's just not working right. They aren't the person for you!
Tell them what you feel without destroying them completely