Tell him you love him like a brother - nothing will quell his passions faster, and more permanently :-)How to breakup with someone who loves you very much? Please answer?
maybe u should tell him that he is horrible at giving sex and guide him in the right way to pleasure u ? and if he jus have a small penis tell him things arent workin out like any ordinary relationship
ooook. i dont think you love him then if youre gona break up with him over something like that. maybe u r confused its not hard to explain. UM HONEY, i dont like it when you do it like this ________, try it like this ______ . is that so hard?
if that's the only reason u don't want to be together with him then don't break up. there may be many other things that u like about him. if u still want to break up with him thensit him down and tell him that it has to end. tell him why. say, it has to end becausehe just doesn't operate good enough and then say understand then stand up and leave politely, then stop at th door turn around and say im so sorry, we can still be friends. then go away.
If he was good at sex would you stay with him. Some men need to be trained.
The truth is always the best way to go and if he loves you it's going to hurt his feelings no matter what you say.
hmmmmmmmm Make a commitment, if your a Christian turn to God and start praying LOL.
tell him in the face (( He is a man not a woman so it wouldn't hurt like it would hurt a woman )), just tell him you want to end the relationship for a secret reason and finish the job.
no problem. been done to me
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Be gentle.
Be kind.
Be considerate.
Be compassionate.
Be respectful.
Be honest.
Be firm.
Say, I feel.
Don't say, You always . . . or You don't . . . or You never
Be quick.
Say, ';My feelings for you have changed.';
He doesn't have to know he's lousy in the sack. His next girlfriend will tell him that. You got that part right.
His feelings will be hurt. Nothing you can do about that. But he will get over it and find someone else.
DON'T have makeup sex.
Good luck.
Just do what you've got to do. You may need to leave him a letter. Sexual incompatibility is probably just the tip of the iceberg; there are other - deeper - reasons you don't feel comfortable with him, and the problem manifests itself as sexual incompatibility (on the surface).
Seriously, if this is the only issue, and you otherwise like the guy, I would really try to work things out. Maybe the positions you have tried are not good for the two of your, maybe you need more ';warm up'; time beforehand. Have you tried just talking to him about it? Maybe he has no idea that it isn't good for you or you haven't been direct enough in telling him that a particular position isn't just not your preference but actually causes you discomfort. If you haven't at least had this discussion with him, then I think your breakup will be that much harder on him because he won't see it coming.
tell him you don't want to rush into a relationship and that you wanna put off dating for a while. sorry if that doesn't help, but i hope it does!!!! ^+^ good luck hun, you sound like a sweet girl!!!!
be messy making him not luv u ...lol......that betwenn you and him but just tell him your not worth loving and spending time wiht!!!!muah
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If someone you loved was breaking up with you, how would you want him to handle it?
Be kind, gentle, and supportive.
You do not have to go into detail about preferences - just call it ';chemistry'; or just not feeling right.
just explain to him that you dont feel the same anymore, if he asks why just say that your feelings for him have changed. Whatever you do don't mention the reason, it would really upset him and possibly enfuriate him
good luck.
From my experience, you're going to hurt his feelings either way.
So just tell him you're not happy in the relationship and you want out.
He won't understand... and you don't owe anyone an explanation.
It's your life.
But if you do have to tell him why, then you may as well tell him the truth.
I wouldn't say that sex is bad... just say that you more comfortable when you're not trying to be happy with him, and that's a sign it's not going to last.
Or something like that
good luck
just let hm done easy and be like thus is nt goin to work out any longer im srr.....
I'll try tackling both sides. (So you can really think this through) First off, have you tried simply taking action to shift the sexual dynamics? That might be all you need. Besides, your man will respect you for at least wanting to take charge.
On the other hand, you're best off being honest with him if you are sure that breaking up is the right choice. Phrase it as ';My needs aren't satisfied and our efforts to fix it have failed.'; Otherwise, the truth will come out later and it could easily bite you in the butt.
Learn from my mistake.
I had a similar situation but she was awesome in bed, it so sucked to have to break up with her. She was really nice, too nice, the kind of girl guys oggle everywhere she goes, always happy and cheery, we did sports together and had lots of fun, but unfortunately, she wasn't on my level intellectually and eventually, as great as everything else was I just couldn't stand to hear her answer ''whatever you want to do'' when I asked her what she wanted to do? one more time. Or to see the vapid stare on her face when I went on about something I cared about or had read about that she just couldn't comprehend. My big mistake was being too gentle, too nice, too easy on breaking up with her. It started real well except that she just wouldn't let go, and no matter what I said, she would always find a reason to come around again, to call again, to show up at my door at 2 in the morning again, and I always accomodated her. It went on for 6 months. In the end I had to be short and rude, because I really just couldn't get rid of her, she would even show up at my friends parties, friends who she never liked before, or who didn't know her. In the end I think she really hated me for a while, and if you ask her today, I bet she'd say I was an ***.
Breaking up isn't easy, someone almost always ends up the emotional wreck, its happened to most people, he'll just have to deal with it, do him a favor, don't be too nice, he'll find a way to manipulate you into draggin it on to the bitter end.
Good luck.
You want to break-up with your boyfriend because he is bad at sex?
Is that the basis of your relationship with him?
Never had the experience personally, but if it is that important to you just lie and tell him the old, ';It's not you it's me'; line.
No matter what you say, he is going to be hurt terribly because, as you say, he loves you very much. Lie to him, no need to shatter his ego as well.
Well, though I think you have rached a new dpeth of shallowness in your reasoning, I will give you the answer. Just say it is over and you don't want to hurt his feelings. Don't let him talk you out of it, just do it, stick to your guns and let him deal with the pain. Its life, he will learn to deal with it.
ur so mean....i mean u want to breakup with him just because he is not good in ***.. what if he was your hubby .. she still wanted to break up with him ,.... girl think twice .. its not a way to treat some one like this...!!!
You should try and teach him to be more gentle with you, first.
Be a total *****!
Tell him the truth.
If the relationship is good other than the sex, try and teach him a little. The sex can be improved.
If not.. Well, there really is no nice way to break up with someone.
Just explain that you DO love him very, very much - but you are just not IN LOVE with him anymore. Take it a step at a time and make sure it is the right decision. Maybe you should just sit down at the table with him, have a couple of drinks and converse about eachothers' feeling towards one another. You might re-discover why you fell in love in the first place, or he might see your slant and agree to a pain-free break-up. Good luck!
is the reason you want to break up with himbecause he is bad in bed?
if thats the only reason, instead of breaking his heart, let down his ego a little bit, and tell him what hes doing wrong and how he can improve.
If you care about him and love him, whats the harm?
BUT if there is more to it, more then just the sex thing, and you don't feel the same.
Just tell him, it would hurt him more if you stayed more then a day with him knowing you no longer want to be in the relationship. In the end, you both win.
Sure, He will be hurt, however, its for the best.
Best of Luck.
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First of all, i just wanna say I think it's pretty horrible to break up with somebody just because they don't screw you good enough
But, anyway if you're going to leave him just do it, or stay with him and try to make it work.
Just tell him it isn't working out, you're looking for something else, he'll ask questions like WHY and say NO NO NO ILL CHANGE probably.
Just stick to your guns and keep telling him it's over, you need something else.
Keep it short and sweet, (in this case bitter) don't drag it out
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