How to BreakUp with Someone you LOVE?

Hey everyone....


I am in desperate need of some advice. I have been with my boyfriend for about 9 months now. I realize I shouldn't have gotten myself into this relationship, however, I did, and I am now madly in love with this man. For different reasons though, I realize we have no hope of a future together. I think I should break things off sooner rather than later, however it is not as easy as that.


1) We are madly in LOVE.


2) We work together.


3) Cannot bear the thought of hurting this guy that I care so deeply for.


4) Don't know what I would do without him in my life.....


Anyway, I think you all get the point....my question is HOW to breakup with someone you are deeply in Love with, sparing both their feelings and yours????? Any advice would be much appreciated!!!!!


THANKSHow to BreakUp with Someone you LOVE?
u simply dont, ur both in love, y lose something u may never find again?How to BreakUp with Someone you LOVE?
your really lucky i wish that was my case just follow your heart not wat religion has to say

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i dont understand why u would want to break up with someone you love...but anyways i think the best way is to sit him down and tell him how u feel because if you dont the problem u might have may escalate...
why do you have to break up with him?
y break up. if your in love than that is what really counts. GOOD LUCK!!
um yea uh if you loved him you wouldn't be asking should i break up with him so i don't know if you love him if you don't then break up with him remember this tho we are who we choose to be and we make our own decisions with or without the influence of others..We choose the way we live our lives so good luck to you and whatever may happen to you
don't do it, you will regret later, because i did the same thing, i broke up with a guy that i love, because i thought it was for the best, and now a year later i still love him and i want him back, but he's already in another relationship, he wants me back too, but does not want to hurt the girl like i hurt him, so i get the short end of the stick, my advice is if there's no problem stop trying to create one, i created a big one and i still don't know how we are even going to get through it. trully examin the relationship, why do you think you guys have no future, talk to him about whatever it is that you fear, if you want to be alone right, ask for a short break, but trust me if you just make a hasty break, you'll regret it.
You dont you gave absoulutly no reason why you want to break up with him and many on why you love him so why are you?