How to breakup with someone?

I am having some issues in my life.


I am feeling overwhelmed and sort of smothered in my relationship with my Girlfriend. I guess in part it has to do with the affair i had WITH her and ended my marriage. maybe im feeling guilty still. maybe i am feeling like i could get another chance at being back with the ex. In my mind, my marriage was not unfix-able. i just was tempted and strayed away. and now that i think about it i am seeing more and more that the way i treat my girlfriend, i should have treated my wife. and then i would still be married.


I guess what i am getting at, is how do i ';get out'; of this current relationship? I have been with this Girl for almost 2 years....off and on.


I lived with her for 8 months, then left without telling her. then got back together and broke up at least 5 times. and each time she would take me back with the promise of never leaving. well call it mid-life crisis or whatever, I am having these issues again. I am definitely feeling like i should not be here. but for the time being, i cannot and will not bring myself to break it off again.How to breakup with someone?
just be honest.How to breakup with someone?
be honest. just do it. itll be ok.