IS THERE AN EASY WAY TO BREAKUP WITH SOMEONE YOU LOVE?

I've been in a serious long distance relationship with my BF for 3 years now.. we met on a dating site, I saw his pix and sent him a message, after chatting for a few days we decided to exchange ph numbers. he told me he was in love the moment he heard my voice... we talked till 3am, and still I didn't want to hang up, that's how much I enjoyed our conversation. we met in person 10 months later. it was the best time of my life.. we visited each other every 4 months since then. I've met his whole family and his buddies and he has met mine. we even traveled together (he pays). he has done so many sweet and amazing things for me to show he loves me, we talk on the ph everyday and never go to bed without saying ';I love you, good night'; but there many challenges that make our relationship difficult. I'm 12 years older then him, we live 3 cities apart which is expensive and there's trust issues too. he has chatted online with other girls, women.. younger and older then I. I'm not to happy about that and I told him so, he says it's only on a friendship level, which I know is bull sh_t. so after 3 years of this back and forth stuff I've grown weary and want out. btw just because I'm older then him does not mean I look old. I'm no plain jane. I take care of my self and have a fantastic body, guys stare at me everywhere I go, ';sexy'; is what say as I pass by. I love my bf but I need to be happy in life and I'm not while he is in it. I've tried to tell him it's over but he still calls and wants me in his life. How do I just let go? I tried and get sucked right back in. I don't want to cheat on him but I know that I have to move on. any advice on how I can make the right moves toward leaving him without breaking his heart??IS THERE AN EASY WAY TO BREAKUP WITH SOMEONE YOU LOVE?
if he really is chatting with other girls, then leave him and make sure you let him know that thats the reaosn why. Id rather die than stay with someone who talks to other girls on more than a friendship levelIS THERE AN EASY WAY TO BREAKUP WITH SOMEONE YOU LOVE?
if u love them... why break up with them?
Its not that hard since you guys live ';3 cities apart.'; You might have to change your num. Thats what comes w/ situations like these. Cut it cold turkey, if you know you dont want him in your life and you've obviously already tried letting him down easy, it's what you gotta do.
Ehhhh I can see why you dont bother. 12 years older than him, long distance, and if hes chatting with other girls he really doesnt take you seriously. Dont believe that ';friendship'; bullshit. This is a big reason why I date people who dont do online dating, its so easy to cheat when youre on one of those sites. No reason why you put your life on hold and your happiness for him. BTW, what youre describing doesnt seem to be love but more infatuation (esp in the beginning) In all my past relationships, we talked nonstop in the beginning. Thats the lust stage.





Break up with him, tell him its over for sure and that he doesnt make you happy. Say you want someone more compatible for you (doesnt sound like you 2 are compatible) When he calls afterward, dont give in and dont talk to him at all. Go No Contact. He will get the hint.





It will hurt in the beginning, take care of yourself and focus on improving or healing yourself. It will get better and you will be so happy down the road when you meet someone better for you!
i had a boyfriend that i spent an entire day trying to dump. i finally had to call him that weekend and just tell him it was over. I told him he wasn't the one i was going to marry and if that was the case it had to be over. i live in a small town and it was hell, i did love him. but i just had to ignore his calls and deal with it when he decided it was over and hated me. but i made it. my advice: break up and cut all contact.
Explain to him what you have explained here and stay strong! Block his number/email or whatever, even if it's only temporary. He might not understand but you have to do what's right for yourself. He will get over it eventually. Life goes on.
';Breaking his heart'; is inevitable in this case. And, how can you ';cheat'; on someone you've already told that it's over? The answer is, you can't - it wouldn't be cheating.





The best way to get rid of him after you've already told him it's over is to see other guys immediately. And even better, find one you really like and who lives nearby, this time. (You've learned your lesson about long-distance relationships.) And most importantly, STOP ACCEPTING HIS CALLS, TEXTS, etc.





If you're hot, I'll date you. Send me an email and let's see what happens. But only if you live in SoCal!
i dunno, do what you think is best
I was in a long distance relationship for 6 years. She was THE love of my life. Yet I had to move on as well. It hurts very very much, but you will get over it in time. You need to find someone who is local, that you can hold everyday etc. Believe me I know how you feel but move on!
Miss Understood : I was gonna say that lol xD
is it easy? no


its hard and takes time but you do get over it


pain is always gonna be a part or life, but the sufferin is up to you